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    Default how to handle negs

    Any ideas on what to do when a groupe of girls say "OMG nice jacket" and they all laugh whats the best thing to say then i thought of giving a littole laugh and saying ok and walk away but what is the best way to make a convo out of it and how to open them any ideas on what to do to resepond to the neg and how to make a convo out of it

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    Default Re: how to handle negs

    alright, im no expert but the best thing to do imo is just totally ignore it. Carry on the conversation like it was never said. This really catches them off guard because most guys would neg them back by saying, "you're really ugly" and walk off. Another thing you can do is kind of make fun of her for just saying that out of nowhere to a person she just met. Get her friends in on it ask them if she does this a lot and if she's the bigmouth of the group.
    Asking a question isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of wanting self improvement.

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    Default Re: how to handle negs

    easy response to that...

    i simply reply "I like it too...Thanks for the compliments.. but i like your dress, i think i just saw someone that wore the same flashy thing like just 5 minutes ago... but since ur such a genuine sweetheart, i think u wear it better than her "

    why? cause its all about "FRAME CONTROL". Control the frame ( YOUR point of view, NOT theirs) and u control the conversation. High value males dont worry what other guys or girls think of them, they live for their own ideas and opinions and if someone throws a neg, u simple reverse "frame" it to your own advantage

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    Default Re: how to handle negs

    Quote Originally Posted by guyfinesse View Post
    why? cause its all about "FRAME CONTROL". Control the frame ( YOUR point of view, NOT theirs) and u control the conversation. High value males dont worry what other guys or girls think of them, they live for their own ideas and opinions and if someone throws a neg, u simple reverse "frame" it to your own advantage
    Tyler, is that you? Haha

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    Default Re: how to handle negs

    thanks, im not Tyler.. im John from LA =)lol

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    Default Re: how to handle negs

    john that was pretty brilliant i really love that

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    Default Re: how to handle negs

    Quote Originally Posted by LIL G View Post
    john that was pretty brilliant i really love that
    thanks =) glad u liked it bros


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