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    Default Need Quick Advice for Date Tonight

    So I've been freezing this girl out for a few weeks.....

    She ASKED ME out for tonight a few days ago. Said she had some tickets for a show.

    She texted me just now and asked me if i was still in town for tonight. I said, 'yeah we still on'

    She said , 'yup i'm meeting people afterwards so we can do the 8pm show'

    I'm not sure what to make of this? She is putting a time restraint on me i know. How should I work this. I'm not even sure I want to go cause I lost interest. I certainly don't won't to get AFC'd.

    Any ideas on how to respond to that. I am currently ignoring it.

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    Default Re: Need Quick Advice for Date Tonight

    Hey Roland,

    Go to the show and then go with to meet the friends after - might be some good potential plus you'll have social proof.

    hope this helps
    rs5096

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    Default Re: Need Quick Advice for Date Tonight

    Not sure I can go meet them w/ her. I hooked up w/ one of her friends before so i think she asked me out on the 'secret'....

    if i say who cares and do go it's gonna be a bunch of drama i don't care for....

    i think that's what is bothering me about it...it's like i lose both ways....

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    Default Re: Need Quick Advice for Date Tonight

    I'm not sure if i messed up or not.....

    BUT I just cancelled on her....

    just kept it loose and told i was doing something fun tonight since i don't get a ton of free saturdays....regroup ing w/ my friends afterwards is too much of a hassle....let me rephrase that i can't go w/ her and meet her friends because of the drama factor....i could be wrong and she mean different friends....

    ..she pretty much said at 9:30pm she will be moving on....it's almost like this chick thinks i'm gonna buy her meal or something....

    my approach was basically from Virgil's alpha guide...

    "Say no to women at times. Women love it when a man can say no, and doesn't do whatever she says. It shows authority and sets you up as a challenge for the woman. You will raise your value if you're not always available to a woman. "

    Maybe I took it too far? I felt empowered afterward though.

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    Default Re: Need Quick Advice for Date Tonight

    Hey man.

    I don't think it's a bad thing you cancelled, like Virgil's guide said, you need to say no once on a while.

    See if she asks you out again.

    : Gemini :&

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    Default Re: Need Quick Advice for Date Tonight

    Me canceling was right move. Think it was a shit test because she pretty much begged me to go out after that. I actually did end up going. On better terms at least. Date wasn't that great though.


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