Cody, you remind me of conversations that I used to have with friends. I think you are well on your way to becoming an expert. I think you have some progression to do. It seems like you know all the plays, it's time to master the execution.
My journey to so called expertise went a little like this. I read a lot and practiced a lot. I practiced religiously, ferociously, ummmm obsessively. I practiced until I could see the matrix. I knew exactly what was happening, what to say, what to do at the right time. when guys started competing for my time to sarge with me and ultimately started offering to pay me, I thought Hmmm maybe I'm an expert. I'm an expert based on practical application. In order to teach it, especially for money you should be able to demonstrate it with regularity.
It sounds like you are well on your way, just keep practicing.
FYI, being that I have been off my pace a bit because of being in relationships and taking a break from coaching. Now that I'm looking to do pick ups on video and possibly write an new kind of ebook I'm finally getting my full fledged swag back. If I can do it, so can you.