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    Hey Guys,

    I want to talk about something that Iíve been struggling with lately.

    Am I an expert?

    You see, Iím an honest and realistic guy. I have a healthy ego (especially in regards to women), but I donít think Iím The Sh*t. I know a lot about women and PU because Iíve been studying and practicing for years now. People come to me with their relationship problems (which I love), but Iíll admit itís a struggle to balance school with something that Iím not even getting paid for. People call me an expert, but Iím not even sure what that means. They say I always have an answer, and my answer is always right. Theyíre right. Iím not bragging, but I have yet to receive a question that I canít answer.

    Iím only 20 years old, which makes this difficult for me. Many guys that are older than me are asking for help, which I can give them, but the dynamic feels odd. I have mad respect for my elders and appreciate all that they have to share with me too.

    Iím young, and that discourages me a little. I have big dreams for what I can do for The Community, but I donít want to pitch myself as better than I actually am. Iím not the best PUA out there. Iím not even close. I canít get any woman I want, but I think the 100% success rate is a marketing gimmick anyway. Iím just an amateur PUA whoís good with woman and want to help other guys get there too.

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    Default Re: Am I an Expert?

    Find someone who you know is an expert and ask them also.

    This is a dumb question but how many 9's and 10's can you get a week?

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    Quote Originally Posted by kino911 View Post
    This is a dumb question but how many 9's and 10's can you get a week?
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    Default Re: Am I an Expert?

    Your advice is always great, but there is no 100% chance to get any women you want. With enough experience anyone can get where your at because its all about knowing what to do in certain situations imo.

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    Cody I've rd some of your posts and I like your style. I have a question. What issues come about from having too many women at your party? Last night me and my four roommates had 13 women over. I think it went well but it seemed like there were too many women.

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    Default Re: Am I an Expert?

    Your question begs another - does it really matter? Do you dude, if you're pulling women, helping out other people, that's great. What more are you seeking?

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    Default Re: Am I an Expert?

    You're doubting yourself too much, mate. Why do you think everyone comes to you for advice? How do you think you built up mad respect in such a short time on a forum for womanizers?

    Because you're an expert.

    You know about every aspects of dating and relationships to some degree - and a lot in most aspects. There's always room for improvement, even for experts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rollo20 View Post
    Cody I've rd some of your posts and I like your style. I have a question. What issues come about from having too many women at your party? Last night me and my four roommates had 13 women over. I think it went well but it seemed like there were too many women.
    What were your intentions with these women? I would suppose that each of you ultimately wanted to take a girl back to your room at the end of the night, but you're hosting a party and as a host your goal is to make sure everyone is enjoying themselves. Don't forget that women don't think like us. They have girl's nights just to have fun, where if we have a bro night most of us wish we were getting laid. I don't know about you, but most parties I've been to the bro-to-chick ratio definitely wasn't in our favor. I think it's only fair that switches from time to time. Have to keep balance.

    It's your morality, but worst case scenario is they get jealous and fight over you. You can take it to any level that you want. Listen to AFC Adam's stories for good information on that. I've actually been working on a project from this principle, based on a mixture of Project Entourage and Neil's Inner Circle. I'll share more on the topic once I develop it further.

    Quote Originally Posted by SonnyCurtis View Post
    Your question begs another - does it really matter? Do you dude, if you're pulling women, helping out other people, that's great. What more are you seeking?
    I would like to teach eventually.

    -and thanks, Virgil. You're probs right. I'm too in my head.
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    Default Re: Am I an Expert?

    Hey Cody,

    Yeah I think you're an expert. Doesn't matter how other experts view you. It's mostly based on if you can teach people. If you can which u do a lot here, you're already an expert.

    Just a quick question(main reason why i posted)....did your game use to be bad? have you grown a lot from when u started?

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    Quote Originally Posted by roland777 View Post
    Hey Cody,

    Yeah I think you're an expert. Doesn't matter how other experts view you. It's mostly based on if you can teach people. If you can which u do a lot here, you're already an expert.

    Just a quick question(main reason why i posted)....did your game use to be bad? have you grown a lot from when u started?
    Thanks Roland,

    I think my hang up is the difference between being a good PUA and a good teacher. I can teach much better than I am as a PUA, if that makes any sense.

    I was never terrible, but looking back I can see all the little mistakes that could have lead to great memories: I didn't make a move, I shouldn't have said that, I should have said SOMETHING, etc. I had girlfriends and relationships, but I wasn't getting what I wanted out of them.

    I honestly got into The Game because of my "bros" more than anything. I've never really had good guy friends that I could trust. They all went for my ex's behind my back.

    That's something they don't tell you when you become an alpha. You start getting followers instead of friends. Good friends are hard to find, but women are everwhere.
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