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    Default Need help asap PLEASE! lady friend is showing interest need advice

    hey guys I need help from the masters! there is some sort of back story to this so you guys can get some idea whats up, but bare with me thanks!

    I have this lady friend who I've known for about 3 yrs, and i had a crush on her, but i had a gf at the time so nothing happened. we would hang out a lot and she would tell me about guys she'd see and hook up with and I'd do the same. anyway something happened and it kind of put our friendship in a rough patch and we got distant.

    However, recently we have been hanging out a lot and I've noticed a certain vibe about her like she digs me and stuff. and even my sister notices too so it isn't just me. like one time i'm at her place hanging out i ask her for a ride home she gives me one, but as she drops me off my OTHER lady friend (strictly friends btw) shows up and my crush asks who that is and i say oh its____ and i go for a hug good bye and say thanks for the ride, but she looked angry and wouldn't return the hug. and just two days ago i go out to the club with her but i bring my ladyfriend along and she was surprised like oh i thought you were coming alone. and at the end of the night kept asking me if i was seeing her and why I wouldn't hook up with her. and (last example promise) last night we hit the bars but before i went to go pick her up she asked me if it was just gonna be us two, and then when she actually got in the car she asked again about my lady friend who i brought with to the club the night before, if she was gonna join us.

    AND in addition to all that she gives me the basic IOI's like laughing at my dumb jokes and not wanting me to leave and stuff like that.

    Now that you guys know somewhat how she has been acting around me, hopefully you guys can help me out and give me re-assurance that she has been giving me hints her and there, or just being friendly. PLUS I would love some words of encouragement on asking her out or getting some sort of strategy on how to escalate with her or something.

    OH one more thing, I gotta do this fast because she is moving to MIAMI at the end of August and we are in California so its pretty far.
    PS thanks for reading this whole thing guys I know its alot, but I had to put it out there so you guys can give me the most optimal advice! and I will be responding and doing updates for this thread

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    Default Re: Need help asap PLEASE! lady friend is showing interest need advice

    Those are some pretty strong IOI's. I believe any woman that can show her anger when it comes to another woman is legitmately interested. However it's a risk that this is the fuel that drives her car. Depending on if her interest in you is genuine and she wants a relationship or she just likes the challenge. You know her better so use your best judgement.

    If she is just enjoying the challenge then you can escalate with her naturally by flirting and more kino. But DO NOT reveal any of your feelings for her. It has to be one of those "things just happened" ideas. Once she knows she can have you, then you are no longer the challenge.

    If she is interested in a genuine relationship (and so are you) then you still DO NOT want to confess any feelings. This will maintain that you are a challenge. But you may want to relax with any jealousy plots and give her a bit more of your attention. Granted she is moving, but she is still your friend so try and be delicate.

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    Default Re: Need help asap PLEASE! lady friend is showing interest need advice

    thanks BatMan great advice, I actually just talked her on the phone for a bit and we talked about the bars last night and how it was fun and we should do it again. She also wants to go wine tasting together and we both have never done it before, so the fact she wants to hang out and try new things with me is very re-assuring. but yeah thanks again BatMan


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