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    sonnyboyd is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default loose confidence after talking with a few girls.

    I can talk to girls just fine. but some times. I get way to psyched up. From social pressure. And slightly. panic. Think that things will go bad. So I leave... what can I do to help fix this beta-ness!

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    Default Re: loose confidence after talking with a few girls.

    I just posted this same thing in a different thread, but I think it applies to your question as well, so I'm going to copy and paste about 80% of it.

    You have to start not to give a damn about whether or not you'll get blown out so you'll stop panicking. I find the trick to that is to be yourself. Like completely yourself. Don't make up stories that aren't true, don't do anything extra to impress someone, etc.

    Most of all, and this one is important, don't change the way you feel deep on the inside. For example, if you're a nice social fellow who can talk to anyone, don't push that aside to try and feel like you're a sexy, suave man. If you're not being completely yourself, not only will women notice and their respect for you lower, you also won't pass sh1t tests and blowouts. If you're being completely yourself, there is no reason to feel ashamed, come up with excuses, or apologize for anything.

    Besides, something that comes natural for you is far easier to use and to become better at than something that doesn't, which will give you a lot of headache trying to learn. (I wouldn't say that always goes for learning PUA though, a lot of guys have the traits to pick up women, but just didn't know what they want or need to get rid of some social programming. Though some others do seem to be struggling with it).

    Also, when you're approaching a woman, don't think of why she wouldn't want you. Think of why she would want you.

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    Default Re: loose confidence after talking with a few girls.

    the first step is learning to persist, you may not believe, but all the Numbers I've scored through cold approaches in day was through persistence, persist when they reject you, take a deep breath, start to convince them, you may have to lower you cocky and funniness and start to talk a bit more logical, it not only improves your game, but also it is the only way that works on some kind of girls IMO.

    and remember, pick up is messy by nature, don't ever try to be prefect.

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    Default Re: loose confidence after talking with a few girls.

    Thanks guys! I feel kinda scared thinking about it. But I'm doing it! When I see a Cuty she's mine. getting out of my comfort zone. TODAY!


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