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    Default HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    I sent a woman on OkCupid a message, and she sent me back a response that has me perplexed..

    Basically my profile pic is me, and my best girl friend.

    Here's how the two messages so far, how should I respond to this?? and is she neging me?


    ME: "I can tell you're a very adventurous person. I like that !
    One of my favorite things is exploring Central Park with a friend. Just getting lost in the moment.
    If that's something you like to do, get back to me."

    HER Response: "thanks! who are two women in the picture?"



    I have not Responded yet, and I know getting angry is not the answer. Any help will be appreciated.

    UPDATE, I RESPONDED:

    ME: "ME: Oh that's me and my best friend. Do you think that shirt makes me look fat? God! I need to watch those carbs if I'm going to make it to Next Top Model"

    Then She responded

    HER: "So you are a woman? Your profile says male"


    LOL HELP Please..

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    It sounds like she's simply curious about the women in your picture. You could easily tell her that they are your best friends, or avoid the question and see if that creates some intrigue. Regardless on how you answer that questions you may want to still tease her for not even answering your question. Online is still a field that I am learning myself so take this with a grain of salt. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    It sounds like she's simply curious about the women in your picture. You could easily tell her that they are your best friends, or avoid the question and see if that creates some intrigue. Regardless on how you answer that questions you may want to still tease her for not even answering your question. Online is still a field that I am learning myself so take this with a grain of salt. Hope this helps and good luck.
    There's only 1 woman in the picture, the other one is me ! LOL

    Basically she's calling me a woman... -_-

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    Oooooh now I see. Hahaha she's funny. Well then there are a few ways to respond to this.

    Respond directly: "Oh that's me and my best friend. Do you think that shirt makes me look fat? God I need to watch those carbs if I'm going to make it to Next Top Model."

    Frame Change: "Lol is that how you usually get guys numbers? I gotta say, you're funny, but I'm not quite impressed. You mentioned in your pro....." (Change the subject)

    Or you could just completely ignore it and continue with your question.

    It's little difficult to determine how these would be interpretated online vs in person. Use your best judgement and let us know how it works out.

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    You can't really see what i'm wearing in my profile pic, maybe I do look too girly LOL

    Here's my OkCupid Profile, tell me what you think.

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    I wrote her back:

    ME: "Oh that's me and my best friend. Do you think that shirt makes me look fat? God! I need to watch those carbs if I'm going to make it to Next Top Model"

    HER: "So you are a woman? Your profile says male"


    WTF is she serious or is she just messing with me??

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    That's the tough part about the online scene. Women are more conecerned about safety from creepers, stalkers, sexual predators etc. so it's difficult to tell if she is seriously asking you this or is messing with you.

    You may have to come clean about this. But I think you can recover by trying to call her on her bs. Since she accused you of being a woman and you went with it, now she is negating her previous response by acknowledging she is aware you are male.

    "Ah so you know that's not two women in the pic. You should hold onto your jokes if you plan to use them I'm pwnager and I like your spunk, so be careful since my level of sarcasm surpasses most."

    This is off the top of my head so feel free to be skeptical.

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    Thanks again Batman. I'm curious as to wether she will react positively..

    Anyone else feel free to chime in with your take on the situation or opinion.

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    Anyone else have a different take on either my profile, or the conversation between me, and this girl ?

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    Default Re: HELP.. I am perplexed by her response

    No one??

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