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    Default Overthinking all of this....

    Gentlemen. Is it possible to actually overthink this entire pick up deal?

    I find myself not having too much trouble opening women at night time venues but I have troubles keeping interest and closing.

    I think I'm trying too hard to run game like others do to the point that it isn't feeling too natural.

    I know some guys will say that this is proven material and I get that, but on the flip side maybe because I'm trying to run it with someone else's attitude per say it just doesn't work for me.

    Idk this is something that has been bothering me lately. I know partially it is inner game but on the same token I think with my limited experience on this that inner game should be something that when words come out your mouth it should be natural vice scripted. I could be wrong and that's why I'm here to learn from those of you who have much more experience than I.

    Please chime in and thanks for reading.
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    Default Re: Overthinking all of this....

    Even experienced PUAs can overthink things from time to time. It's what got us into PUA to begin with.

    While you are practicing it's almost like a circle. To develop inner game you need outer game, to get good outer game you need good inner game. It's a back and forth struggle and there really is no straight answer with which you should work on first. It's really about taking a few concepts....getting out of your comfort zone and try it.....record or remember the results that become consistent, now you have experience.

    We all have our times where we feel lost, especially if you don't have a mentor to point out your sticking points. But you WILL get it and eventually make it your own.

    Scripted material is good for beginners, but ultimately will not get you very far until you start to see the dynamics between a man and a woman. To see the hidden patterns and underlying tones. To understand that it doesn't matter so much what is being said with words, that the body and tonality are having a different conversation. That you can almost tell if someone has a bf, is a lesbian, or is ready to be approached by you just by looking at her. Any good PUAs will tell you it takes literally.....years to get good and they still will have alot to learn.

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    Default Re: Overthinking all of this....

    Thanks brother. It's good to know that I can always come back to this site and get advice from guys who have or are going through some of the same dilemas I am currently going through.
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