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    Default Sarging Solo?

    Hey guys.

    I know some PUAs go sarging alone. Suave Kino has stated that some of his most successful sarges have been when he goes alone.

    I'm just not sure how to go about that in bars and stuff. That takes a lot of confidence I guess. I just dunno how that wouldn't effect social proof. Any ideas?

    Thanks guys.

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    Default Re: Sarging Solo?

    im pretty sure, that he goes out alone, but doesnt stay like that for long, i mean, he enters the first club/bar whatever..
    if you go out alone and dont talk to any1 but the bartender, you will lower your chances because of very low social value, but those who sarge alone, will talk to the first group of people he sees, socialise as much as he can and that improves his social value

    i would prefer to sarge with 2 more people, because if in a club there arent any interesting people, you still wont get bored, because of your 2 friends , but thats just me..
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: Sarging Solo?

    Yeah, I see what you mean. I think it's more that I don't feel at that place yet. I'm still developing my game, but I'm good at meeting new people. I dunno, maybe one day when I'm really bored I'll try it haha.

    Same here, I like at least 2 others, because if I get in set for a while I'm not leaving anyone alone for too long. I guess that's an upside of solo sarging, you don't have to worry about anyone else. You can just do your thing lol.

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    if you wanna experience sarging alone, you could always go out with a group of people(so if you are failing/ bored etc you can back to them), and walk in clubs and go directly for sarging, opening sets alone and increasing your social value a lot, only talk to your friends once in a while so as you dont seem like you dont care about them
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    Default Re: Sarging Solo?

    It can be really hard and depends on your mood, location and confidence. I'm 40 and have travelled the world many times. IMO in most places most guys like to talk to other men so never hesitate to talk to guys as well as women. Very easy in places with sports on or around a pool table. Also not every girl has to be a potential close - there's no reason why you cannot befriend a group of girls so you have a headquarters from which to expand from. I have purposely friendzoned myself with one group of girls so I can chat with other girls. I have also purposely gone up to girls and asked if I can join them because I am alone. Your actually raising your value by admitting you are alone but confident enough to change the situation. That tugs the girls empathetic side and can even be a good pickup tactic. You tap into the 'let's take care of him' side. Then when you meet other girls your full of confidence. Plus those girls might even help you. 'I'd like to meet some girls tonight, help me?'. You will be disqualifying yourself from them and they may even find themselves attracted to you as a result.

    Day game is much easier to sarge alone. Night-time it's hard to do. But if you're confident and in a good mood you can end up having a great time. You can also use time constraints well when by yourself. 'my buddies have headed onto another bar but I had to come back in here to talk to you'. Most of the time I actually approach girls I leave my friends to approach anyway because they just get in the way or cramp my style so the only difference is you don't have that safety net of friends to return to. Just remember whether alone or with a group the objective is not necessarily just picking up girls but going out to have a good time and meet new people, so go out and do just that. You will probably have more success than just randomly trying to number close. The attitude to have is I am popular, I will attract people to me and I will succeed no matter what. The other thing to keep in mind is to act fast. Don't walk into a bar and think 'oh I'll just have a few beers and talk to some people later'. Talk to people straight away. Talk to anyone and everyone from the get go and don't cling on to losers that will hold you back. Move about the room. Work your way up.

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    Default Re: Sarging Solo?

    Thanks whitedragon, that was very insightful. That's what ibwould intend to do, not sarge initially, but befriend everyone. The way you broke that down was extremely useful. Thanks. Thinking about it I have had times when friends have left early and I want to carry on so I've befriended a Radom set or two and hung around. I guess I'll just do that. To be honest, I'm the same. I go out with a group of people, but sarge alone when I go to the bar or out to smoke or whatever. I also work better away from a group. They're just there so I have people to go back to I guess lol.

    Thanks again, man .

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    Hey Gemini, you inspired this post. I hope you and others find this helpful.

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    Default Re: Sarging Solo?

    Thanks Kino, that post was very helpful . Great stuff as always.

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