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    Slyder is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Need help with open 2 set that has closed off

    Hi! New poster but have been lurking for a while trying to up my game. Got a problem I don't know how to proceed with and not sure how to proceed with. So, at a social club I'm part of theres a two set of waitresses/bartenders that always work together. Let's call them short and tall. Tall has been my target, both have boyfriends. Anyways been developing a good repoir with each. Escalating conversations. Short has been easier then tall. In any case saw short out at a club a couple week ago and based on the conversation and kino pretty sure I could have closed. Played along a bit but wanting to close with tall and due to the ligistics of that night didn't close. The following week, I finally get tall to escalate the convos using a comments like we know each other well enough now lets not be boring and get the number close with indications we may meet on that weekend for a drink. Text a few days later telling her I'm in a boring meeting, tell me a story. No response. About three days later tell her she won't be able to buy me a drink that night cause I have other plans. No response. In any case I see them both again the following week. Both closed right off. Conversation is strained not sure why I'm getting iced all of a sudden. I try to play cool. Sit with my boys rather then banter with them at the bar when I see what's going on. After a while short is bringing me drinks... Getting some kino again. Head back to the bar before I leave. Make a few jokes with another dude sitting there about how it's rude not to reply to texts with tall working there. This starts the banter up again. Tall indicates she was working and comments it wouldnt be right to text me back at midnight. Complete shift from previous convos. I mean the few times talks bf came up she totally blew him off. Left soon after. No idea how to proceed. Would love any advice. Can provide whatever further details may be needed! Thanks in advance for reading this over!

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    Slyder is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Need help with open 2 set that has closed off

    *little nudge*

    Any thoughts anyone? Can I provide more details or is this a lost cause and move on? Thank.

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    Default Re: Need help with open 2 set that has closed off

    I'd say keep the texts positive, and text the next day. Give her something that's easy for her to reply to. Something like, "Hey, it's ...., we met at so and so club the other night, hows your week been?" Try to schedule a simple meetup as soon as possible to build rapport, maybe coffee or a drink, nothing more than 1hr or so.

    Talking about a boring meeting isn't really giving her much of a hook to reply on, it's also causing her to have to come up with an open ended answer, which most girls won't bother doing unless there was more momentum between you two (ie, after a few dates or f'ing her). All it takes is one off text to close a girl off when rapport/momentum isn't yet there (she's probably thinking "man, I don't even know this guy, I don't feel like having to come up with something to write). Move on to the next one bro


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