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    Default Longest shit test EVER.

    Ok so this girl came over and we were playing cards and she smirks at me and takes all the cards throws them in the air and yells "52 card pick up" and shes expecting me to pick them up. Now AFC me totally would've picked them up but new me? No. We sat there for 2 hours neither of us picking them Up until she decided to leave. At the door she was pissed and turned around and said your not going to give me a hug? I did hug her but I don't think that's a big deal. Later my roomate picked up the cards. I did the right thing right?
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    Default Re: Longest shit test EVER.

    You did the right thing but then sat for 2 hours having a pissing match with a woman your trying to hook up with. It could be very easily seen as AFC because your being stubborn to make a point. This is the same scenario if a man refuses to buy a woman a drink because of principle. He tries so hard to NOT look AFC he still ends up looking AFC.

    Next time something like this happens use a compliance test. Tell her you'll pick them up if she goes to get you a drink. Or you'll let her rub your feet if you do. Or the other way around.

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    Default Re: Longest sh1t test EVER.

    Quote Originally Posted by 1cecube View Post
    I did the right thing right?

    Like BatMan said, you had it half right.

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    You did the right thing but then sat for 2 hours having a pissing match with a woman you're trying to hook up with.
    Lol. Sounds like me talking.

    This is rough. This is grey. This is what separates the boys from the men, because you can't bullsh*t dominance. She's going to pick up the cards or she's going to leave, because you don't put up with women like that. Have a dominant frame and serious tone. You just changed the dynamic from fun to serious in about .2 seconds. She's going to be caught off guard and want the warm vibe back. Or she'll leave pissed but it's her own damn fault, and she'll acknowledge that in time.

    "Here's the deal. You are going to pick up the cards because I'm not a your little b*tch. If you don't want to that's fine, but I'm going to have to ask you to leave. I don't put up with women like that."

    Now get up and go to the bathroom.

    If she does it, it's going to be a humiliating act. You don't want to watch her do it and make her feel like sh*t by doing so, so go take a piss or brush your teeth or something. By objectifying her as a "woman like that" (i.e. just any other girl) she's going to want to prove otherwise.

    There's also a good chance she'll still sh*t test you by waiting for you to come back out. Stick to your guns.

    "No, I wasn't kidding. Are you going to pick them up or are you going to leave?"

    I've done this numerous times on numerous similar sh*t tests. I derived it from a scene in The Game where Mystery gets a girl to leave with him by changing the dynamic and offering twice. It's failproof and foolproof. Change it as the situation seems fit. (It was also inspired by one of David DeAngelo's 77 Laws).
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    Default Re: Longest sh1t test EVER.

    This doesn't have to do anything with the 'game' but I would bust up in her place.....

    Me: "OMG guess what we are gonna play?"

    Her: ?

    Me: Tosses 520 playing cards up in the room. "520 card pickup' Laugh and walk the fark out!

    Seriously though. This is a grey area!! I mean what if she was just being playful and instead of picking them up you dropped the 'bombshell' on her. I'm just wondering if this could be more of her being playful than dominant. I think u have to be in the room though to know. I mean we play card games and video games to win but it's not a dominance thing.

    I completely respect the advice here but i'm not sure there were only two options to this scenario. Reason i think this is story starts out by you saying, 'girl came over'...If a girl comes to my place it is GAME OVER.

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    Default Re: Longest sh1t test EVER.

    Do you think she was doing it just to be fun and build rapport, or to be a bitch and test you to see if you would pick them up? Either way, it was probably good that you didn't pick them up but you could have turned it into a fun game, like ok new game, now whoever picks up the lower card has to answer a question or do something. That way you could be building rapport and not sitting there angry the whole time.

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    Default Re: Longest shit test EVER.

    You guys are right. I took it as a sh*t test because he said it was a sh*t test. It might not have been though.
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    Default Re: Longest shit test EVER.

    Yea but she smother and said if you pick up the cards your my bitch she was joking and I was laughing but there's no way I'm picking them up after that lol
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    I meant to say smirked oh and this girl is cute she's like an hb9 she's used to guys doing anything for her. And we really weren't pissed at first we were laughing for about an hour and a half about how stupid this is. Than we both started to get really bored and got pissed.
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    Default Re: Longest sh1t test EVER.

    Look at the facts here guys - the chick threw the whole deck of cards up in the air. I'm assuming that made a huge mess. Actually picking them up would have been pretty bitchy. I'm wondering if this chick is young cus this sounds like some kind of immature way to flirt/sh1t test. Seriously, if one of my guy friends threw the whole deck in the air I'd be like the fark dude pick that sh1t up.

    "This game sucks I know a better one." Oh yeah what's that? "I call it banana in the taco" Wha????? And start kissing her. She was cool with the card thing for 90 minutes, she probably got pissed at the end cus she realized you weren't gonna make a move and seemed legitimately concerned with the stupid cards.

    At the very least ignore the damn cards and go do something else that's fun. Make it your frame. Again I dunno how old you are but I say game on, next time don't let her set the frame, have fun escalate and make your move.

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    Default Re: Longest sh1t test EVER.

    Actually... I'm having trouble estimating the damage done from tossing the cards. For some reason I pictured something like a twister coming through and leaving playing cards in its wake. I guess it's not really immature just playful. Bottom line though if nobody was gonna pick up the cards they shoulda just boned for that 2 hours.

    Next time dude! 8)


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