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    Default texted too soon? how to salvage

    so i basically took out a girl last night that i met on the subway about a week previously. When we met, she actually took my number and didnt give me hers, so i was surprised to hear from her at all. Either way, she texted me a few nights ago and we eventually made plans to go out last night. last night rolls around and I go out and have a couple drinks before meeting her to get loosened up. We end up meeting and Im pretty drunk (by accident, i had very little to eat that day) but doing my best to cover it up.

    We ended up hanging out at that same bar for nearly 3-4 hours (i had to get up and piss like 4 times, it was kinda weird) have a completely fluid conversation, almost devoid of awkward moments (rare). I walked her home at the end of the night and she kissed me on the cheek and that was that. This morning, at like 10am, like an idiot, i texted her "hey, so am i gonna see you again?"

    I havent heard a response since, and am wondering if you guys might know what happened or have any advice moving forward.

    Im knew to this forum btw.

    -drag

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    Default Re: texted too soon? how to salvage

    Hey Drag,

    I'm no expert but I would like to give my tested opinion.

    The text in the morning was needy and by saying "am I ever going to see you again?" You lacked CONFIDENCE and also gave her immediate CONTROL. You handed her all power with that. I would suggest a freeze-out and hopefully, just maybe, she will text you back.

    In the future, if you feel like the date went pretty well, wait until SHE texts you afterwards.

    This is my advice, but there is plenty of very successful pua's on this forum that can help you further in the future.

    Welcome to the pua world!
    "I came, I saw, I conquered"- Julius Ceasar

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    Default Re: texted too soon? how to salvage

    Just wait a day or two and send another message about something random like 'hot today - hope you're keeping cool' or 'hot day, what do you thinks better - ice cream or chilled wine?'

    Forget that you even wrote the text and if she genuinely likes you she won't care you sent it anyway.

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    Default Re: texted too soon? how to salvage

    alright, both of those are sound bits of advice.. any other suggestions or funny Sh*t i could say..?

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    Default Re: texted too soon? how to salvage

    If she doesn't text you a day or two after you meetup, def initiate the text like White Dragon wrote. If she responds, roll with it, if not, she's not interested.


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