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    Default text game...was this supplicating?

    Hey guys, Just met a girl at my work. Young 19yr old.

    she told me her name and knew id be looking her up on facebook. I met her yesterday and came home today and added her.

    She seems completely not interested.
    Did I DO something WRONG in this short fb text?



      • Me: Hey I heard you want to be a corrections officer Jess's mom told me that lol





      • Her: Yeah I do





      • that's good...that's what Im doing in four months





      • Yeah I'm gonna go out west





      • lol me too
      • we should hang out sometime before I go





      • When you go





      • Planning November





      • I'm planning on Sep if not march





      • thats awesome girl! When I'm not busy, we should grab some drinks on a pation or beach somewhere





      • Yea





      • This weekend, Im going to my condo in TO, pool party and stuff...u should come





      • I have plans
      • And work





      • kk no prob..were just partying at the condo...its a nice pad. text me sometime and we'll get together





      • Yeah I will





    She says ya she will...but she doesnt have my number! Was I too needy?
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    Default Re: text game...was this supplicating?

    What you wrote is fine for an initial contact - she didn't respond much which usually means she has other guys in her life or you're simply not her type. So you either have to find out if she's dating someone else or has other guys lurking or how you can get her interested in you. You asked her out and she had other plans. Oh well, your partying at a condo and shes working. Just send her a message in a few days saying hi and maybe something more provocative. Get to know her better to develop comfort but also try get an emotional response from her. Don't ask her out again for the time being. If she doesn't respond to anything at all move on.

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    Default Re: text game...was this supplicating?

    i wouldnt talk about work or anything serious with these girls at first, try to make all your initial communication fun and playful- dont make them thing you want anything from them at first, including their time- every guy wants her time so you can use this as an opportunity to set yourself apart- when in doubt, put yourself in her shoes and ask yourself how many guys does she deal with day, how are they likely to present themselves, and how can you make her experience of you something novel so you stand out among the hoards.

    -drag

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    Default Re: text game...was this supplicating?

    How was it when you first met her? Did you get IoI's? Or just her name? To me it seems like you asked her out without building any sort of connection at all. Being straight up can work if she's into you but you can't be beta about it - "we should hang out sometime". That's not definite. Invite her to join you on x date, at x time, for x activity and that way you get a definite yes or no. You did that but not til like the 3rd time.

    My personal style is to take things slow with girls. Give them little bits of yourself at a time, work your charm but keep them guessing. Tell her a funny story or share a laugh at work one day, then each day after joke around, talk, flirt a little more. After awhile she realizes she likes being around you but she doesn't know if you're actually interested or just messing around. Then you show her you're serious by asking her out. I say this is slow but depending on your work schedule this could play out in less than a week - but your chance of success will be immensely higher.

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    Default Re: text game...was this supplicating?

    I'd say with the first email, keep it light. My approach is usually something that is humorous or teasing. After adding her on FB, if she accepts look at her pics and find something to tease her about. "Hey, bumped into you at work the other day." then add in a teasing/funny question about one of her pics. Guaranteed she has one you can pick on, but keep it teasing, not insulting. This took me a lot of practice to find the line between teasing/insulting.

    Thats how I approach online game sites, like POF, and it has been working great. Even though you met this girl offline, she doesn't know you at all yet so you can use an online gaming approach.

    I never send a first email or message that is not either humorous or teasing. After a bit of teasing, you can ask more serious questions. Thats what got me from getting 1 response for every 20+ emails to getting about a 80 - 90% response rate.


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