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    Default All my game is is numbers.....

    Guys,

    All I can get is numbers!! I hardly end up meeting with the girls and sometimes during the texts, I lose my patience with the girls and turn them off.

    What the hell is the point of pick-up if I can only do the approach, get a number and then nothing comes of it....

    I know this isn't Alpha, but i'm not happy with my life at all. My goal was to make more female friends and have around five women I could see and date...I currently have none after a couple months of trying. Ive been laid of course, but it always ends badly (fighting, girl saying she has my baby etc.)

    On top of this my confidence is at a low. My body has started getting fat around the waist (from all my workout supplements) I use to be jacked and with that I had huge confidence!! I looked good and felt good, and people noticed. Now because of this fat around my love handles (that I cant seem to get rid of) it's affecting my confidence tremendously, just at a point that im trying to improve my game.

    I want to have five women to date. Is this possible? The only way I think I could do this is by lying and getting into a relationship with five diff girls. i find if you say "non-exclusive" or just "friends" women get turned off...if I tell them I want a gf, they seem to be more interested.

    My body right now is affecting me the most though....
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    Default Re: All my game is is numbers.....

    Here's my unqualified analysis - you're too goal-oriented when it comes to chicks dude. And they can smell it a mile off. Girls hate that. Who cares how many women you date dude. Why quantify it? Go out there, meet girls, have fun with them, fark them. Girls like a guy who lives in the moment. A wise man told me hooking up happens when you stop worrying about hooking up - it's a zen thing.

    You can't rely on others to make you happy. Especially not women. Set goals that you can achieve on your own. Perfect place to start - your body.

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    Default Re: All my game is is numbers.....

    Five girls at a time is excessive, my friend is an amazing natural who knows women inside out and he can barely pull off 5 girls. The only way to do that is to have extremely solid game to keep 5 girls going, lots of lying, lots of games, and being amazing in the sack (like in a league above 90% of guys, you got to be honest with yourself on this one). Focus on 2 girls at any one time, that way if one flakes off, you have another one. When down to 1, start gaming to get #2. This will help prevent oneitis tenancies and will boost your game and confidance, as you won't really give a crap as you almost always have a backup girl . One way to do this is to utilize an online dating site and get good with finding your backup girl. There are lots of great online dating posts in this forum.

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    Default Re: All my game is is numbers.....

    I always had 5 girls (or more) I was dating when I was 'single'.

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    Default Re: All my game is is numbers.....

    well how did you do it Bill? elaborate?
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