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    paul.thelawless is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Unhappy Hot woman working on a Gym

    Hello PUA Gurus,

    I want to get a girl that works in a Gym, I go very often. She is a fitnesses assistant, and it looks that she also wants to know me. She always is looking at me and smiling me, getting close or sitting where I am working out. But the problem is that I am a complete nut. Probably I am a looser because I dont even know how to talk to her. How to start talking to her and get her number? What questions should I ask? How should I behave and show her that I am also interested?

    Any help will be highly appreciated.

    Thanks Masters of this important art.

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    Default Re: Hot woman working on a Gym

    Hey Paul,

    First off, welcome. You're not a loser, you just don't know how to talk to women. Read the Newbie Guide. It contains a thread on how to talk to women and gives you three different styles for trying to get her number, along with two threads on inner game (your confidence and such). Read through it and if you have any questions then, feel free to ask anytime.

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    Default Re: Hot woman working on a Gym

    Firstly try not to imagine her as the fitness assistant goddess who works there and is somehow elevated above you as a 'loser' customer. She is obviously going to have a certain amount of power and intimidation because she works there but you are far more mysterious as the customer - you could be anything. SHE is the loser who works at a gym and not in a top modeling agency or law firm . So gain some confidence in that you are really of higher value than her. You are someone who has an incredible life and only visits the gym to get fit. For her she may be looking for something exciting beyond the gym - she may be completely bored working there and completely fed up with macho steroid gym junkies. She might be looking for someone exactly like you. She is a women, beyond her physique, she will have all sorts of insecurities you can work to your advantage.

    Being a customer allows you to subtly chat with her and start seeding yourself as higher value without much risk. Your bonus is she is already friendly to you so you don't need to actually say much to get her comfort level up. She already has some trust in you seeing you there. Try and be polite but funny, tease her a little about working in the gym 'this is your career path? What do you really want to do?' 'don't you get tired of working in a place that always smells of sweat and Gatorade? '. 'How come you always play the same music here - you need better workout music!'.

    Introduce your own value while working out 'that was a good workout today - I had several important meetings this afternoon and it was good to lift weights and take my mind off high calibre contracts'. 'That was just what I needed...Im off kyakking in the mountains this weekend so I will be strong'. 'I can't understand these losers that only work out biceps but have chicken legs! Much better to have a proportioned build don't you think?'. 'What the hell is this machine?? Looks like something from a NASA astronaut program? Show me how to use it' (admire her body as she demonstrates). Ask her questions 'how much can you lift? Could you lift me? ' , 'I hope you don't burn ALL your energy in the gym '.

    You could subtly find out what she thinks of you 'what's your assessment on my body? Do I look fit to you? I have nice arms yes? ' - if you are fit or 'I'm not much of a gym head - trying to get fit but my brain is my strongest muscle - do you prefer brains or brawn in a guy?' or 'Check out my incredible 4" biceps - I think I have a shot at Mr Olympia next year!' (sarcastic) if you're not that well built. Something playful and fun. In a place where everyone can see the showy muscles, it will be good to reveal your hidden brain muscle.

    Gather the usual key intel 'do you have a boyfriend?'. Just because she smiles at you does not guarantee anything. Try flirt with her as if you are almost going to ask her out (ie 'what kind of food do you like?' 'are you a romantic person as well as an adventurous person?' something that is symbolic of a date) and then walk out the gym. Get her to qualify herself. Gauge her reaction next time you see her. If she continues flirting or approaches you in any sort of friendly way ask her out: 'let's grab a bite to eat or drink this Friday. Oh your busy Friday? Saturday then '

    All of the above is letting her know you like her...but a better way is to give her the idea you have the potential to like her. You are the prize and she is going to have to reveal more of herself to you before you are convinced. You can do this very easily going to a gym as you are coming back consisently. Just start with some funny conversations about whatever comes up, or like mentioned above, and when you see her being interested (be observent of her actions - does she play with her hair around you? Does she follow your poses? Does she ask you questions like do you have a girlfriend? Does she try and be funny or charming to you beyond her job duties? Does she also flirt and smile at other customers???) make a bold but easy going move 'Lets go out'. Get her number too but because you can develop a good rapport at the gym, you should be able to ask her straight out bypassing text seduction. She will likely say yes unless she has a BF. You could get her number and then start seducing her that way but its much more confident to ask her out directly after you have had a few good conversations. Women are always engineering the sitiuation too so be very observant of how she responds to you, what she likes and doesn't like and how she is responding to you versus other customers. If she really likes you it probably won't matter too much what you say anyway haha as long as you don't say something really stupid - so less can be more.


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