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    bobscott123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    Hey,
    I just got home from a first date that was successful, until she completely mind messed me.
    Here is what happened:
    We are at starbucks for drinks, everything is going well, then she goes to the washroom. One minute later, a hot girl from another table comes over and asks for my number. I say 'yes', but right at that moment my date starts walking towards me from the bathroom, so I tell the other girl 'ask me later'. My date comes back and the other girl leaves. My date asks what it was about and I said 'she asked for my number'. I then appeared very cocky and teased my date a bit and acted like I always get girls like this (Which was stupid). My date got her stuff, then walked over to the other girl's table. All 4 of them walked out right then, and told me THAT THEY WERE HER FRIENDS. While my date was in the washroom, she texted the other girl. I had NO IDEA that she had brought 3 friends to 'watch me' on our date. She said that I'm a jerk and made her feel really self concious. They left abruptly, without even a hug.
    What the hell just happened? I feel like my mind has been twisted by her strange test. I need your help!
    I'm 18.
    Thank you!

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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    Next, bitch sounds crazy she was completely out of line to bring her friends along.

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    bobscott123 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    I'm really confused as to why she would do this, and what she wanted to get out of it. also how she wanted me to act.

    Was up all night stressed about it.

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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    She is probably just very insecure, because some guy probably cheated on her. I would go on to the next girl, she seems a tad crazy man.

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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    Hah, it was clearly a trap (I could tell right away). If this was an arranged date then you probably shouldn't take the girls number. If it' wasn't arranged but spontaneous, then it probably wouldn't hurt to invite the girl to your group for some fun. After all, who wouldn't mind more chicks around?

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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    Lmao this story is priceless. I'm sorry this happened to you, but I think it's great women still do this.

    Ok there really isn't much for you to do other than accept you messed up. Any cover up will make you look even more of a liar. Just shoot her a last text such as "Wow that was really good lol. And you're right. I was a jerk and am not built for this stuff. Hope you do find someone and good luck." Then let it go and move on. Then start working on having standards. A man who is on a date with a woman doesn't give out his number to a hot girl solely because she is hot. He needs a real reason. If not then tell her if it was any other time you would, but you are already on a date.

    Honestly I wish more women did this test. Men need to understand that having standards is attractive in its own right. Hope this helps and good luck

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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    Is it possible to somehow rebuild rapport and try to arrange a second date?
    We have the same summer job at different locations so it's guranteed we are going to see eachother eventually. Letting go is hard, she's pretty and interesting

    You guys are all right- she just totaly caught me off guard, and then I panicked. Everything went so fast from good to bad.

    How do you keep the 'filter in your head' working in intense make or break situations?

    Thanks!

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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    I agree with BatMans post, "if it was any other time I would but-". That's a classy way to put it

    I'm not sure what you mean on the filter, you kinda gotta commit to your date or don't. And to be honest, I'm not sure if you want to recover with her it sounds like she's gonna bring way too much drama to the table

    If you still want to, wait till its been 3 days since youve talked to her and tell her or text her, "hey, I messed up, but I'd still like to see you sometime. How about a second chance, dinner at x?"
    It's far from guaranteed but it would be the only possibility I see
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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    This girl has issues. It was a trap, run as far away as fast as you can.


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    Default Re: Coffee date gone wrong! Need help!

    BAHAHAA, I laughed when I saw that picture. Freakin' epic. (I used to play that game)


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