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    Default Super slow pick up

    Hey guys,

    I have been meeting up with this girl and things are going slow. She doesn't party, she goes to a good school, and she is religious. Like she goes to church. I am not religious myself, but this doesn't matter anyways. I just wonder if that part of her is slowing things down. Anyways here is as far as I got. She rode on the back of my motorcycle and we watched a movie at my place with her head on my shoulder. Last weekend I fingered a girl I just met that night in a park but didn't close because she turned out to be super attached and crazy. Anyways I guess I am sick of all the craziness and just want a normal girlfriend. Or maybe I want what I can't have or some sh1t? For some reason(s) I like this girl anyways. This one is just confusing since I started talking to her a couple months ago ...just seems slow. I have slept with a few others since meeting this one, but still not her. This is alright if that is normal? I have never experienced anything like this...I like her though. I like having her around. Anyways thanks for reading and maybe you guys have some tips on how I could escalate. I could easily have her over and watch a movie again ....maybe some of you have experience with these "good girls." It is quite possible she is a virgin btw. Thanks in advance.

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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    Have you done anything with her so far? If not just slowly try to add in more kino and eventually you can probably escalate to kissing and more if she wants to. I would look to Vin De carlo's escalation ladder on specifically what you can do and how to escalate. It sounds like you are sort of coming down with a bad case of oneitis man. Remember if this one doesn't work out there are plenty of other hot girls out there. Especially if you are Pua. Best of Luck
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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    Sounds like you just want her because she's putting up resistance.

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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    Thanks for the replies. I haven't done anything with her so far. She rode on the back of my motorcycle and we just cuddled and watched a movie at my house, which was good. My plan was to not sleep with her last night because this was the first time she came to my house and she seems so inexperienced. I just wanted her to be comfortable there. Maybe next time I should escalate more.

    Also regarding the one-itis thing...I don't have that. I have had feelings for enough different girls before and I'm a rational guy. I just think it is good to go for girls that you feel something for right?

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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    Dude, just remember that every women is a sexual creature, religion or not. And as for your sexual life, you live it however you want. Nobody on here has any place telling you what to do with it.
    "I've never seen anyone pull as quickly or as efficiently as you"
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    captaincanada is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    Howdy y'all. Time for an update!
    Last night I had her over again and we watched a movie and just chatted and joked around. I got zero signals to go ahead with the kiss but we were just lightly cuddling ...that kind of thing...I tried to physically escalate but she resisted...I was sort of confused but when I took her to the subway I just thought fuck it and I kissed her....the reaction was unexpected...she started to participate but pulled back quickly. I thought I fucked up...but on the other hand....this was already going so slow and wtf is going on??? The last train was coming and she basically had to get on almost right away...she said we would talk about it and we could try again next time...she didn't like that I did it in the middle of a crowd for whatever reason....anyways she said later on the phone that she didn't realize that I felt that way and she says we can make a good relationship. Strange turn of events....not sure how to go from here..any comments or advice would be appreciated!

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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    ok so met up another time and we had fun but I was feeling sick today so I didn't go too hard. Anyways I have already kissed her once but I need to avoid the friendzone. Is it possible to kiss her very soon next time we meet or should I wait for a bit (as in wait a bit into the night). To make it clear...how can I kiss her when we meet in the daytime right at the start to get things going? We have already met like 8 times. Any input is greatly appreciated.

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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    She is not religious. Do not consider anyone religious if they are willing to kiss you, ride on your motorcycle, or... GOD knows what else! The second you said that she rode on your motorcycle... you had her in the bag. No religious person would even hold your hand. This girl is yours, but I cant say how long it will last.

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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    Yea she is not a hardcore nutjob or anything. Anyways I suppose I am trying to avoid the friend-zone now. I don't think she has much if any experience. Do I just talk to her about this? It is a tough situation for me. I can't seem to get going physically with this girl....but she says she likes me...so I am I guess frustrated or AFC as you guys call it

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    Default Re: Super slow pick up

    Don't think of it as being frustrated. You will just need more patience with this girl than most others. But does she know that you are banging other girls while you are seeing her? She might not like that since she is somewhat religious.


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