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    Default Re: Need an outside opinion on going steady

    Shes attracted but when I asked if she was busy on friday she said she was, sounded like a legit excuse but you never really know. she than asked me what my plans were, which I proceeded to tell her.

    Next week would you ask her to hang out again? Im thinking I tell her its her turn to make a date. If she makes one great, if she doesnt than its over.

    What do you think?

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    Default Re: Need an outside opinion on going steady

    Two points here:

    1) A legit excuse not to hang out isn't that big a deal, you can still continue chatting her up and see where it goes.

    2) If you aren't too interested then you can totally put the ball in her court, but I'm still a fan of keeping control, so another option is a small freezeout until you want see her again and give it another go.

    Good luck, if you want something a little more specific feel free to ask.

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    Default Re: Need an outside opinion on going steady

    Ok update and a question.

    We didnt hang out at all last weekend. I think it was her testing me to see if we can date, because she had mentioned if we did we wouldnt be able to hang out every weekend. Whatever. She initiates texting right after work on friday. Im busy and dont hardly respond, maybe sent back 3 texts all weekend. Both of us playing hard to get on txt msg.

    Today we eat lunch together like normal and everything seems fine. What I want to know is, if I ask her out for this coming weekend and she says no. How do I respond? I would like to salvage it to the point where we could end up dating. And I have no idea how to do it.

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    Default Re: Need an outside opinion on going steady

    Quote Originally Posted by somethingaweful View Post
    Ok update and a question.

    We didnt hang out at all last weekend. I think it was her testing me to see if we can date, because she had mentioned if we did we wouldnt be able to hang out every weekend. Whatever. She initiates texting right after work on friday. Im busy and dont hardly respond, maybe sent back 3 texts all weekend. Both of us playing hard to get on txt msg.

    Today we eat lunch together like normal and everything seems fine. What I want to know is, if I ask her out for this coming weekend and she says no. How do I respond? I would like to salvage it to the point where we could end up dating. And I have no idea how to do it.
    cant edit previous post but just had a thought. If she turns down my invite was thinking of giving her an ultimatum. saying something like 'you are screwing up your chances with me.'

    thoughts?

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    Default Re: Need an outside opinion on going steady

    you guys were right haha. played it cool, no pressure for a few weeks. started getting frisky last weekend and we said already feels like were official so now we are. looking at my previous posts is sad, my game has grown by leaps and bounds in the last 8 months but still need some inner game work I think.


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