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    pwonager is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default Crazy Night, not sure what the fuck hapenned ! HELP

    I was at the Beer Garden with some friends, and after they decided to leave I decided to hit a local bar which I usually go to by myself.

    There's a Bartender who is very cute, and I kinda had a crush on her. Last few times i saw her i got shit faced and probably made an ass out of myself, and it was awkward.


    Well tonight I went into this bar, and as soon as I go in I see her, she immediately gives me a huge, and a kiss on the cheek. Then immediately she starts getting touchy feely. Grabbing me everywhere, and even gave me a HIP BUMP, which is a sign that she wants sex.

    I was in shock, and wasn't ready for any of that so eventhough I was reciprocating her kino I wasn't being constant, and i would touch her back but my hand would immediately move away...so basically awkward AFC behavior..


    I made a stupid comment and said she was "jittery tonight". And i could see in her face she was pissed.

    Anyways i noticed like she was distancing herself, and she started to talk to others, and kinda move away from me, and was avoiding eye contact with me. I tried to interact with her, and then she starts introducing me to her friends.


    After a while I started dancing towards her, and we were both standing at the bar, and she tells me I need to leave, that I was too much in "her face", and that she wants to spend time with her "friends", then she tells me "she never liked me", ------------but while she's telling me this she's groping me everywhere. Touching my chest, and feeling my arms... WTF mixed signals..----------------------


    I then proceeded to tell her to stop touching the "merchandise" that it wasn't free, and she says "fine touch my boobs"...I acted all AFC, and didn't do a thing..


    Anyways I told her I would leave, and i go to the bathroom, comeback and order another beer. Start talking to all her friends, and paying no attention to her.


    Long story short, I start talking to this other girl who has a boyfriend, and she's so into me that she's ignoring her BF.

    They announced that they were closing, and the bartender chick tells me I need to go, and she tells me that she had told me to leave earlier. She grabs me and starts pushing me from behind, and i'm dragging my feet...So i let her, but then i go back to say goodbye to the other girl.


    WTF just hapenned, did i just piss off the Bartender girl, and i'm sure i pissed off the other girls boyfriend he seemed super AFC, and jealous.

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    Default Re: Crazy Night, not sure what the fuck hapenned ! HELP

    The bartender may have been pissed, but it's better than if she didn't care at all. You seemed to be doing fine just not sure what your intent was with her. Usually it helps to have a strong intent, but not become too attached to getting that outcome. Also she seemed to be leading alot of the interaction so she is comfortable being dominant. You can use this as an advantage if she is into that sort of thing. Otherwise you will have to convey that you are more dominant than her.

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    Default Re: Crazy Night, not sure what the fark hapenned ! HELP

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    The bartender may have been pissed, but it's better than if she didn't care at all. You seemed to be doing fine just not sure what your intent was with her. Usually it helps to have a strong intent, but not become too attached to getting that outcome. Also she seemed to be leading alot of the interaction so she is comfortable being dominant. You can use this as an advantage if she is into that sort of thing. Otherwise you will have to convey that you are more dominant than her.
    I agree with this assertion! Making them feel something even if its negative is better than having them not feel anything and be bored. You can salvage this one!

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    Default Re: Crazy Night, not sure what the fuck hapenned ! HELP

    After she told me to leave I ignored her, and started to talk to all her friends, and I even met her MOTHER who by the way is a Brazilian hottie.

    Her mom was telling me to be good to her, i told her we were just friends, and I started chatting with her in Portuguese, and she was impressed.

    Basically I impressed all her friends, but she seemed pissed, and the boyfriend from that other girl seemed pissed too.


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