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    Default K-close, spent the night, then lost it

    I drank with a friend on Thursday night, kino progressed and we ended up at her place. She just broke up with her bf who is a good friend of mine. We rolled around in her bed until early hours of morning, kissed a lot, and then I got loads of LMR (related to my friend).

    Friday she texted saying I should stop by on Saturday. I replied to her to confirm and then she never replied. The next day she replied with an excuse about not checking her phone and I stupidly replied suggesting we meet up. She didn't reply until hours later saying she was out all day.

    Finally I smartened up and ignored these texts and she sent two more texts apologizing and saying we could talk on the phone if I wanted, but she didn't suggest another meet up.

    It has been about 24 hours since her texts and I never replied. What should be my next move? My guess is my only hope is to wait a day or two more and then call and propose a meeting.

    Thoughts?

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    Default Re: K-close, spent the night, then lost it

    Waiting a few days is good, but calling to set up a new meeting again is not the best bet.

    Call just to talk, be funny, come up with some recent stories to talk about. Just Hey haven't heard from you for a few days, gotta tell you about the funniest thing, etc.
    Make it fun. Just a 5 minut conversation to rebuild some rapport. Then a few days later you can invite her out to something
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    Default Re: K-close, spent the night, then lost it

    Thanks for the reply. I didn't see this until after I already took action unfortunately.

    I replied to her text from a day ago and said "My phone was dead when you texted. You're hilarious. By the way, am not impressed with the level of crazy". The first part was to show that I thought it was cute that she thought I would be annoyed by her not replying. The second was in reference to her always saying that I would regret starting anything with her because she was crazy/unpredictable etc.

    She just replied with "haha".

    I feel like I have possibly demonstrated some value by shrugging it off. Should I leave it here for another couple of days and then call like you said? . The thing is that this girl doesn't really like to talk on the phone, so I'm not going to get any sort of long conversation with her.

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    Default Re: K-close, spent the night, then lost it

    If she doesn't like talking on the phone than go ahead and text her some more, just be funny try to establish text rapport, be busy with interesting stuff, don't go for the invite right away, get rapport going and go for it, otherwise wait a few more days and shoot the invite
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