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    Default How to really make a connection

    So I would just liek to ask you guys how do you guys really connect with a girl on an emotional level? Say you've been out with her a few times, been talking for a month and know most of her passions etc. but you've talked all about it. Do you now just start talking about whatever, like "how was your week" (which seems boring) or not? I have a date with this Transfer student from germany tuesday and I feel like i know her pretty well, and don't know what to talk about anymore. Any suggestions how i could better connect with her would be good.

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    Default Re: How to really make a connection

    A good way to make a connection is to first understand "her reality" and showing that to her. You know much about her so this part should be easy for you. Go into as much detail as you can and hopefully she can show you she understands "your reality" as well.

    Another good tool is building rapport. Understand that rapport is simply " a sympathetic relationship." If you are sure that she is attracted to you and you know that if you walked away from her that she would be hurt, then this is a good time to start showing her the things she does or says that upset you. Not to be controlling and telling her what she has to change. But stating your expectations and that you won't accept anything less. Just a firm hand so to speak on your standards as a man. When she does upset you and you show it, allow her to make it up to you. You should also do the same with her whenever you make her upset without overdoing it and coming across as AFC. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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