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Thread: My Problems with Women - Vinyl DJ

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    Default My Problems with Women - Vinyl DJ

    Hey everyone. I need some help with a problem I have with women. Long story short, I get nervous and awkward around beautiful women. After long thought I have come to the conclusion I simply dont have enough experience being around beautiful women to be smooth, natural, myself, etc. Instead, I'm nervous and awkward. I make the wrong decisions and I end up humiliating myself and bringing shame to my name.

    I am a champ with the girls I don't like and a chump with the girls I like. The solution is to keep practicing but the problem with that is I continuously embarrass myself and look like a chump in front the girls and my peers. Its really heart wrenching every time I fail. Within the past 2 years, I can count about 10 different instances in which I absolutely blew it with a beautiful woman.

    I am a great problem solver in everything else. My career life is exactly where I want it to be. I am very talented with virtually everything I face. Its probably because when I fail at these things, its only me who knows about it and I don't mind. But learning to play the game involves making mistakes that involve other people (women in particular).

    I thought about using my imagination and pretending there's a beautiful girl around me wherever I am. I notice this helps a bit because even pretending there's a hot girl in my presence gives me the butterflies (nervousness, etc). What do you guys recommend?

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    Default Re: My Problems with Women

    Hey man, welcome to the club. I'm kinda the same, and I get awkward sometimes eventhough I know the chick digs me.

    Sometimes nothing comes to mind, and i say the stupidest shit LOL, but it's better not to dwell on these things. Just move on, and if she likes you enough you can be a little smoother next time.

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    Default Re: My Problems with Women - Vinyl DJ

    Nobody's perfect we all suffer from it one time or the other. If you focus on having fun and meeting people rather than hooking up you will pull those HBs. Most things in life is psychological.
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    Default Re: My Problems with Women - Vinyl DJ

    Don't worry about it man. I used to be the same way, I'd turn beet red if a hot girl was even in the room with me, much worse if she was actually talking to me. My issue was that I had homeschooled until my senior year of high school so I had no clue what to do. I have no idea if this would work for you but I did two terms of Musical Theater in college specifically to get over being shy and I haven't had a problem since then. We had some really good looking girls involved and, shocker of all shockers...I found out that hot girls are no different than average ones (though sometimes they tend to be boring to talk to)

    Point is, find something that will get you around pretty girls and you'll get over it pretty damn quick. You seem pretty confident so do what you need to and I'm sure you'll find the problem disappears.


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