Hey everyone. I need some help with a problem I have with women. Long story short, I get nervous and awkward around beautiful women. After long thought I have come to the conclusion I simply dont have enough experience being around beautiful women to be smooth, natural, myself, etc. Instead, I'm nervous and awkward. I make the wrong decisions and I end up humiliating myself and bringing shame to my name.
I am a champ with the girls I don't like and a chump with the girls I like. The solution is to keep practicing but the problem with that is I continuously embarrass myself and look like a chump in front the girls and my peers. Its really heart wrenching every time I fail. Within the past 2 years, I can count about 10 different instances in which I absolutely blew it with a beautiful woman.
I am a great problem solver in everything else. My career life is exactly where I want it to be. I am very talented with virtually everything I face. Its probably because when I fail at these things, its only me who knows about it and I don't mind. But learning to play the game involves making mistakes that involve other people (women in particular).
I thought about using my imagination and pretending there's a beautiful girl around me wherever I am. I notice this helps a bit because even pretending there's a hot girl in my presence gives me the butterflies (nervousness, etc). What do you guys recommend?