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Thread: Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

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    Default Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

    I don't know if I could ever have really been classified as an AFC. In HS I slept with almost all the hot girls and would have done more if I hadn't been naive and caught a case of oneitis my SR year.

    That being said its always been pretty easy for me because I was 1) popular in High School and College. 2) a very good athlete 3) attractive 4) worked out alot. 5)grew up and went to school in a small town with limited competition 6) have an extra large package and was known as the guy with the "big dick"

    It seemed like It only took a minimal effort on my part in the past so I never really developed PUA skills.

    Since then I've moved to the 2nd largest city in my state and i swear there are way more men than there are women.. everyone's part of a clique also that is hard to get into. I've never liked clubs or "going out". I recently divorced and have been somewhat relying on facebook and the internet to find ass, but I DON'T LIKE THAT anymore.

    I'm sick of relying on past ass or "O/A" (old ass) to get laid, I want new fresh ass, but there is way more competition and the women seem less open .
    compared to what I'm use to.

    Im sick of relying on ass from ex girlfriends and using the internet to "meet" women.

    thats not any fun anyway, so tell me WHERE DO YOU GO TO MEET these women? For a guy who doesn't like clubs and is in a new city and doesn't really have many friends to go to a club with (i wouldn't go by myself)

    Help me out guys I'm really excited about the PUA forums and finally decided to register.. I've been lurking for some time.

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    Default Re: Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

    nobody wants to respond? I'm not sure why not?Q?

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    Default Re: Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

    Get out as much as possible, simple as that. I had the same trouble than you, as clubbing is really not my thing, but there are so many options around. And chances are you wouldn't want to date a clubbing girl, so why going in pubs? Go to places girls who don't like clubbing go to

    Basic thing is to become part of groups. You said you were an athlete, why not pick up a sport again? You'll meet new people, and even if they are dudes, they will make you meet more people, and then more people, etc..

    Second thing that works well is organized meeting things. Check meetup, they have tons of good stuff going on everywhere, go to as many stuff that you're interested in, and once you find a group of people you like, stick with them; again, they'll make you meet more people, etc

    Finally, just get out, litterally. I have this little starbucks near chinatown in my city where I go a couple of times a week, just stay there, and chill with some coffee, reading a book. I've there enough to be known by the barrista girls and know their names, and I often get random girls coming and IOI-opening me (you know, sitting just beside you, flipping their hair and smiling at you, and checking their phones, without even pretending to be looking for coffee haha). Sometimes I chat them up, sometimes not if I just want to read my fraking book. And since it's your thing, your place, and you're not there at all to pick up, it gets so much more relaxed.

    Anyway, just get out there, and smile and say hi to everyone, you'll be surprised. There are billions of people out there, and a lot of them are in the same situation than you, so you can definitely find a dozens of them, right?

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    Default Re: Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

    If you could go to any club and guarantee that you would go home with "new fresh ass", then would you still not like clubs?

    Clubs are an aquired taste and not sure anyone really ever likes them......until they know how it works..... until they can confidently enter a club, meet some interesting people, and meet beautiful women that you can even make out with within an hour. Sometimes even minutes. (Last time that happened to me it was a dare since she said if I didn't have a gf then I should kiss her). It's the perfect training ground. First six months I was going out by myself since I didn't have a social circle then. You just have to "suck it up." In fact, you may find going out alone is actually better in many ways.

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    Default Re: Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    If you could go to any club and guarantee that you would go home with "new fresh ass", then would you still not like clubs?

    Clubs are an aquired taste and not sure anyone really ever likes them......until they know how it works..... until they can confidently enter a club, meet some interesting people, and meet beautiful women that you can even make out with within an hour. Sometimes even minutes. (Last time that happened to me it was a dare since she said if I didn't have a gf then I should kiss her). It's the perfect training ground. First six months I was going out by myself since I didn't have a social circle then. You just have to "suck it up." In fact, you may find going out alone is actually better in many ways.
    Thanks man I appreciate the ideas, especially the meetup idea!

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    Default Re: Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

    Quote Originally Posted by BatMan View Post
    If you could go to any club and guarantee that you would go home with "new fresh ass", then would you still not like clubs?

    Clubs are an aquired taste and not sure anyone really ever likes them......until they know how it works..... until they can confidently enter a club, meet some interesting people, and meet beautiful women that you can even make out with within an hour. Sometimes even minutes. (Last time that happened to me it was a dare since she said if I didn't have a gf then I should kiss her). It's the perfect training ground. First six months I was going out by myself since I didn't have a social circle then. You just have to "suck it up." In fact, you may find going out alone is actually better in many ways.
    I'll think on this..... you may be right

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    Default Re: Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

    I've been running solo game for awhile. I have actually found it better in many ways. I'll list a few:

    1) Go where you want, do what you want
    Even the best wingman can be a drag because you have to not only step out of your comfort zone to go to a new place, but get them to step out of their comfort zone as well.

    2) No wings = no logistical problems on your end
    She's hot and ready to go? You don't have to worry about giving your wing a heads-up.

    3) Single guys look more confident
    Most people go out in groups. A single guy out by himself, moving around and talking to different women looks far more confident than two or three guys sitting at a table.

    4) Girls will approach you more often
    I get approached 10x more when I'm out and about by myself. When I've got friends or a wing or two around, I am having to do more of the approaching. You look less threatening, and there's no group social situation for her to evaluate.

    5) No lame ducks
    We've all had the experience of having to chip in to help a friend. No friends along means you only have to worry about your own beer, your own cover charge, etc.

    6) It gives you an air of mystery
    Since girls are typically afraid to go out without a group, they are impressed by men that roll solo. I've had conversations turn towards this. "Who are you here with?" "No way, I bet your girlfriend is around here somewhere"

    7) You don't get value calls made on you based on who you are with
    DHV in a group is a composite of the apparent value of its members. Sometimes this can drag you down.

    So don't make being solo a disadvantage in your mind. Make it a strength. If you're bored with a place, move on. Find what is fun and cool to you and make friends along the way.

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    Default Re: Tired of relying on "old ass"/ ex girlfriends ,etc

    There's chances to pick up anywhere my man, you just have to start looking at regular conversation with women in a different fashion.

    i.e. new girl starts working at coffee shop I frequent. Owner introduces me as I am walking out the door. See her a couple weeks later at the coffee shop and say "Hey, it's xxxx right?" she responds with "I'm surprised you remembered!" and I put the cat in the bag with "Well it's easy to remember the pretty ones". The conversation took off. We started talking about school and summer life and then boom, I have a number.

    There's chances to be a PUA in just about every encounter with a foxy damsel. Your eyes are open but you're not seeing not seeing.


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