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    Kind of embarassing asking this but i need help on my texting game! talking to a girl who i met about a year ago but who stopped talking to me because she found i had a girlfriend, now me and the gf have split im just starting talking to her again. shes responsive for the most part keeps up conversation but doesnt do much besides give replies, i made little escalations after receiving a couple ioi's such as get her number (was talking on facebook chat), and become more flirty before i switch back to not fussed and ignoring her flirts.

    So anyway made ftr and said i had to go work talk later to fuel her interest which worked, then ignored her for about a day to try and show disinterest before talkinh to her again yesterday- and she didnt reply! shes had me waiting for about a day now, making me think shes just playing the same game.with me!! i want to text her but that would show her shes won and that im needy. or of course she could of list interest and be ignoring but i dont think thats the case.

    The reason i dont just move on is this is a "nice" girl she isnt a hoe or flirty is definately gf material so ill play the game.

    Thanks peoples love to hear you opinions on this one

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    If she likes you it's honestly not going to matter about 'who texts first' or 'how long to wait between texts'. What is most important is WHAT you text about and what attraction you build in your text conversations. You have to win back her trust because last time you had a GF but were speaking with her. Make her smile, be funny and charming and be honest.

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    You are right i e been concentrating on higher value and cat string and not trying to pove loyalty. i havent really figured we were at the point, i only talked briefly before with her and not really got much out of her this time. shes kindof boring if im honest but shes smart and seems loyal so can deal with that.

    Another thing is i read a quote about questions being a passiom killer and focusing on statements instead, except questions= responses and statements=no reply. i feel like she is maybe too shy/unsure how to reply to my unrelated statements and likes the constraint of knowing how to answer a question. what a delicate flower. or maybe im reading a little too much into it!

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    You're reading too much into it - you don't know her and deep down no matter how nice or how naughty she potentially is - she is a female. You can ask questions. Just don't ask boring questions, make it an exam or use boring statements. Be humouress...you don't have to be Jim Carrey, just make her smile. Maybe she doesn't feel good about herself? Make her feel good about herself. Honestly there are so many ways into a girls pants, just be yourself, say what you want and be confident.
    'Want to see something funny??'
    her 'what?'
    'Are you sure?'
    'Sure show me!'
    send her a pic of you as a kid or doing something funny. All you need to do is make her smile, make her curious, make her attracted. If she doesn't respond who cares. Text other girls in the meantime so you can benchmark her against others or even forget you have texted her.

    Or ask her questions that get her blood cooking:
    'What are you wearing?'
    'Im practicising my claivoyance lessons - are you by any chance wearing black underwear???' Even nice girls buy sexy underwear.

    'I'm on my way over to your place right now in my car...I'm going to pick up some wine - do you like red or white?'
    her: 'what??!!!'
    'I'll be over soon, but be patient I need to fill up with gas and get the wine and take away'
    'You dont even know where I live!'
    'Ok then give me your address' etc

    If she is as smart as you say she will have read lots of books so make your conversations interesting and perhaps slightly poetic or linguistic. If she plays dull open her right up with some provocative questions. You can also just try asking her out too. It's better with rapport but some girls are just boring to text but might say yes to a date. Or she might not like time wasters and could possibly prefer a direct approach. What do you want? Take it.

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