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    Default Assorted IOI's and Confusion

    Hey guys Link here,
    So basically I just disabled all contact with my oneitis to never go back again. This is the reason I got into the game, but now I'm pretty over it. Now I just want to become a pickup monster. Anyways so I have solid natural game, I always kino alot, play cocky funny, and always befriend the guys I don't know. What I'm trying to understand is why do some girls instantly get attracted to me and I know I can get with them, but with others I can't establish attraction at all. I know this is sort of a stupid question, but it's really been frustrating me lately. Getting huge IOI's from girls I don't wanna get with, but not getting any from girls I do. Do Pua's change their game a tad bit to meet all the expectations of random girls and establish attraction? In all these books it sort of seems like it's magic and one type of game works for all girls which I'm starting to think is not true unless you are super attractive. I'm of average looks so I think that might play a factor. I know Pandora's box talks about this, but I really don't want to spend the 70 dollars to get it. Plus I have heard some poor reviews.
    Any thoughts guys?
    Sincerely a tad troubled Link

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    Default Re: Assorted IOI's and Confusion

    There is a term you may have heard called Calibration. Once you absorb most of the techniques you'll start to notice that one woman may need more of something while another will need something else. You may need to built more attraction, more comfort, or qualify her. You will notice little milestones to gauge where you are with her (like overt IOIs). You can even bait her to see where she is with you if you are not sure.

    This is a nice little test (not sure how accurate it is). Have her put her hands into yours, then slowly lower your hands and see if she follows yours or keeps them in the air. Then grab her hands and to a light squeeze and see if she squeezes back. This is suppose to be some kind of trust test and it seems to work for me. Afterwards they want to know what that was all about and you can just tease them and tell them you will explain it later.

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    Default Re: Assorted IOI's and Confusion

    Batman when you personally pick up girls, do you use all those routines that styles does like the jealous girlfriend opener and ESP and the palm reading? Like I want to use it, but it seems so hella chessy to me.

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    Default Re: Assorted IOI's and Confusion

    Lol I remember starting out I did the ESP as an opener in the mall. It was soooo bad. I always have much more to learn, but I can say now that I take openers for what they are. And that is to get someone talking..... That's it.

    Imagine the psychology of an opener. Before you approach, she may be on her phone or distracted. She may be so busy inside her head that she isn't in "social mode" or talkative. Or maybe she is at a nightclub with some friends and is being social, but not with you. The opener bypasses this and your main goal is to reach that hook point where they like you and they don't mind if you stay. So understanding this you can literally say ANYTHING you want. Because you know the opener is only suppose to get them talking. So if she is by herself or with a female friend or two.....look her in the eye and establish eye contact, smile, then say "Hi." And that's your opener.

    Usually I am obvious with my interest from the door, which is why I disqualify myself within the first few minutes to disarm and confuse. I try to relay that even though I am interested, I am not sold just yet.

    Whenever I am not obvious with my interest then it's just really about being social and having fun, then you become this magnet that everyone is drawn to.

    I wouldn't get too hung up on openers just because not every woman is approachable. Flat out. Anyone PUA that tells you they can get any woman they approach is either lying or they understand the leads theory which means that a good salesmen only chases good leads and doesn't waste time with the bad. She could be a lesbian, her time of the month, someone just died, or be completely in love with her bf (Go figure, she's actually in love with the guy she calls a bf) and she simply will not cheat. Going after these types may shoot your confidence and make you think that it has something to do with you. It may be true, but it may just be her. That's why establishing eye contact is a simple test of her willingness to be approached. (Which most women are. Even with a bf). If they are bad leads then either talk to their friends or make friends with them for later and then you have a new wingman.

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    Default Re: Assorted IOI's and Confusion

    Thanks so much BatMan. That really helped a lot.


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