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    Default Wondering if I am in the clear...

    Hello fellow PUA's,

    My question is pertaining to a girl that I have been friends with since last year. So about two weeks ago we met up at an amusement park and "hung out" for the day. We had a blast and unlike other times that we have met this time she told me this was the most fun she has had in a long time and that I should visit her at school (she goes to school like an hour and a half away).

    I have not seen her since then but we have been texting. After we got home from the "date" that night, she texted me that I am a funny, smart and all around awesome guy and that she has many more reasons to like me. She also mentioned how we need to meet up more and constantly mentions how similar our personalities are and how we get along really great. She makes comments that I am attractive and how not many people can handle her like me.

    I also tease her and turn up the cocky/funny on her all the time now. For example, she is also allergic to everything, I swear, but I said luckily she is not allergic to me. She jokingly said, luckily, otherwise she would miss out on my awesomeness. I then said I would put her in a bubble and kick her around to hang out even if she was allergic and she said that not many guys would do that for her, that is so sweet.

    Anyway, slap me upside the head with a book, but I still can not figure out for the life of me if she is interested in being more then friends or if she is being a regular ol' friend. She is one person I can see myself with because our personalities match up so well... and not to mention she is smoking hot!

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    Default Re: Wondering if I am in the clear...

    look for IOIs, either shes giving them or she isn't.
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    Default Re: Wondering if I am in the clear...

    Well she is definitely interested, But let me give you some food for thought....

    Everyone lives in their own reality or "bubble." If you have heard before "perception is reality" then you already understand what I mean. We bring people into our "bubbles" or we can go into theirs. Depends on who has the stronger "bubble" or "frame" if you are familiar with frames.

    Usually if you are able to bring a woman into your reality then you have the upper hand already. In this instance she seems to have pulled you into her reality. This isn't such a bad thing if she is naturally dominant. The problem is that there is a strong risk that she will make you an orbiter. Someone she can flirt with once in awhile or even hang out with when she is bored. Up until you get friendzoned.

    I say keep going until you sense some resistance or distance from her. Once you do then you know that you have to start pulling her into your reality. In your reality you are the prize that she is trying to win over. That everything she does is to try and ultimately get you into bed. And that you will only sleep with her if she fits your standards. Hope this helps and good luck.


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