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    Default Last Minute Resistance Trouble

    So I managed to get a girl into my bed last night. It was in the early hours of the morning and she started talking to me on facebook, I instantly knew she was really keen so I invited her over to watch a movie (we live at the same college so she lives really close by). She came over and we talked for a bit, watched a bit of tv and then we started making out in bed.

    It looked like I was in for sure then all of a sudden she stops and smiles and says "I don't want to do anything tonight". She wasn't rude or anything and didn't seem freaked out but she just said she didn't want to do anything sexual. I was confused because this girl has a bit of a reputation for getting around on college, I thought i was definitely in the moment she stepped in my door.

    So we went to sleep and cuddled, but I try making a few more advances such as rubbing her leg and what not but nothing. She seemed like she wanted me, I could tell she would have enjoyed it, but nothing. She said "maybe another time" in a genuine way and I do think will happen sometime in the future. But at the time I was just caught off guard. I was sure it was on.

    She said something along the lines of "I'm sick of getting with so many boys and people judging me" and stuff like that and I tried convincing her she shouldn't worry about other people so much and that she should do what she wants but nothing. So i tried racking my brain for last minute resistance techniques style mentioned in the game, but my mind went blank. I could only think of a freeze out, which I dont think would have worked.

    Anyone have any last minute resistance techniques that may have worked in this situation??

    Any help is much appreciated.

    P.S. I acknowledge that the reason could have been that time of the month, but it seemed dumb she would make the effort to come over and flirt so heavily had that been the case.

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    Default Re: Last Minute Resistance Trouble

    A few things...

    If you want to avoid LMR altogether then it is a good idea to qualify her. This solidifies in her mind that you are interested in her besides her looks.

    Learn what you can about building tension. If done correctly, she won't even be able to keep her hands off of you.

    And when she said that "she's sick of getting with boys," you NEVER want to try and convince her otherwise. You aren't her therapist. Focus on changing her MOOD, not her MIND. I had a couple of times with LMR and usually I just ignore whatever their protests are. I just smile, look at them like they farted, say "ok", and continue either watching tv, playing with my phone, or on the computer. So I didn't necessarily do a freeze out. Usually they work through it on their own. Just go back and forth with your kino to build tension then eventually she should initiate with you out of frustration. Or at least let you escalate further when you go back in.

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    Default Re: Last Minute Resistance Trouble

    That makes so much sense, thanks heaps!!

    Hopefully I'll meet her again soon. But i'll try that.

    When you say qualify her, what could some basic examples of things to say be?
    At one point she said to me "It's okay, you can just get another girl from college to get a root from", I just did an awkward smile and didn't know how to respond to this. Would a way of qualifying her be something like "Na, all the other girls from college are gross" or something along those lines?

    I always adopt such an AFC mindset when things start getting sexual, I'm making massive progress in my interactions, flirting and building attraction is starting to fall into place, I guess I just need more experience hey.

    My voice tonality tends to rise giving the vibe that I am trying my hardest to make her comfortable and I don't want to push her. A shit side effect of previously being "the nice guy" with girls.

    But thanks again for your help!

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    Default Re: Last Minute Resistance Trouble

    The two things you mentioned she said to you are both shit tests. The best way to pass a shit test is to reframe it. Never go directly head on with it and convince her. If she mentions another girl just say something like "What a clever girl you are. But not impressed" (said with a smile. Then change the subject completely). You don't always have to respond directly to what they are saying.

    You qualify her by having standards. Literally make a list of the character traits your woman would have. Let's say you want a one night stand. Then qualify her for spontenaity and adventurous behaviors. A girl friend then qualify her for commitment, trust, loyalty etc. This makes you a challenge. The important part is your Statement of Interest afterwards. You have to verbally let her know "You know....there aren't many women like that anymore. It's like no one cares blah blah blah...." This will let her know how special you think she is.


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