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    Hey guys,

    I hate the process of getting a girl's number and then having to text her time and time again to get her to come out.
    I get a girl's number and then I find it's hard to get the girl to come out. I mean why do they give their numbers to you in the first place, I'm sure they think I'm good looking...is their ever a time that a good pua doesn't have to chase anymore, and girls constantly chase u? I mean thats what a true Alpha is right?

    Is it just me or do other guys have this problem, I almost feel like I'm supplicating to these girls. I delete their numbers if we haven't met up after Ive made three attempts. I also think girls in my target range must have over a dozen guys texting them and trying to chill with them. I know if I text a fat or ugly girl, she would meet up right away. Why is it I always have to chase?
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    Hey Ecko,

    It may be a timing issue. Girls develop emotions over a period, whilst men are good to go straight away. So if you haven't developed the connection and attraction before getting the number, the chances of flaking have increased.

    If you are pressed for time, I would talk for about 5 minutes; playful tease after 5 minutes e.g. "You are such a bad girl"; put in your time constraint; get the number and leave. This has a natural attraction mechanism built in, which should help. Text 2 minutes later: "I honestly cannot believe what a bad girl you are. Speak soon"

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    Ask them out directly on the spot so your intentions are clear and you'll get a yes or no answer straight away or build super attraction through texting via great conversation. If you can charm the pants off a girl via text often she will ask you out. Looks is not enough in guys - they need a connection as RS said. If you didn't make a connection when you met you have to build it via text so they are super keen to see you in person. I will often purposely text girls with no intention of asking them out (obviously girls I am less interested in but still fun to chat with) and they invariably end up asking me out in the end. I say all sorts of whacky things to them from nice to teasing but none of it sends them away - it only makes them chase me more because I am being confident and being myself - I dont care whether they like what I say or not. I dont come across as desperate because I am not desperate - its that simple. It's a tricky balance - you have to strike while the irons hot but also not come across as needy. If you're a fun guy and interesting to chat to in real life or text they often dont want to let that go.

    That's why it's always good to have a few girls going at the same time. You're always guaranteed of scoring and women know instincively which men are getting lots of sex and which ones haven't got lucky in a while. When you have lots of sex you are also far less nervous around women. In fact you may even be looking to have a breather and some time to yourself or with your mates and suddenly all these girls are ringing you up and you are the one flaking. That is the position you want to be in and theres really no way of faking it, you have to spread you seeds far and wide.


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