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    tehjoeman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Pokerface on for possible sociopath. Should I take it off?

    Alright here's the deal:

    I accompanied my best friend/roommate's sister (whom also lives with us) on a 2 hour road trip to an airport to drop off his/her extended family. At this time, her family remarked on how we should date. On the trip home, she suddenly put the moves on me. Qualifying herself to me and telling me how I was so opposite of the guys she had dated previously. She then started touching me, almost inappropriately.(not that I am complaining).

    I ignored her at first, maybe flirted a little, but nothing too serious. She had told me it had been years since she had been with a man and that she had a hard time being with anyone her friends had been with, etc. Again, I saw this as desperation, which is decidedly unsexy and maintained my poker face.

    2-3 months have gone by now. She drops hints as if she were already my girlfriend, knowing my personal info and my most important dates. Like when I started work and school, etc. She has even gone so far as to disrobe in front of me and continually touches me. I've been keeping my poker face.

    The thing is: now that she is acting as if we were dating ( I can elaborate if asked) she now keeps her door open to monitor when I come home and who with (as I have had a platonic female friend over and this made her jealous). It happens on a daily basis. I can't come home from work without her making sure I wasn't with another girl or bringing one home. She will wait up for me to look through my window, even.

    The sad thing is this: I kinda want her. After my poker faces and getting to know her, she is someone I want to date. Do you fellas recommend this, or am I dealing with a sociopath? Thanks in advance.

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    Time Out is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default re: Pokerface on for possible sociopath. Should I take it off?

    Hope you don't mind hearing the view of someone who's new here.

    I'm not going to judge whether sees a psycho. She could be or she could just be really into you.

    The problem as I see it is that you're not really in to her or you would have slept with her already. If I'm right about that then it follows that sleeping with someone you're not really into who LIVES WITH YOU is a recipe for disaster.

    Here in the UK we say never shit on your own doorstep. (do you have that expression in the US?).

    Anyway I wouldn't want an ex living in the same building with me.

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    pwonager is offline PUA Forums Respected Contributor
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    Default re: Pokerface on for possible sociopath. Should I take it off?

    If you want this chick and she wants you. Why don't you go for it? sounds like you feel some anxiety at even attempting to make a move..

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    Default Re: Pokerface on for possible sociopath. Should I take it off?

    Haha, this is actually my favorite kind of situation, because it can go so bad. I would say go for it, but not in a normal classic boring way, don't take her to fraking dinner, but test her instead

    Like next time she's checking out on you, call her out, like just "Come here." authoritative and stuff, and then go on "turn around", "remove your top", and stuff like that (think True Lies)

    That's just me, but when I end up in that kind of weird situation, I'd rather make the most out of it, for the funny memories haha

    (and also, sex with a crazy girl is great. Bad consequences, but great.)

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    tehjoeman is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Pokerface on for possible sociopath. Should I take it off?

    You are all correct in your own ways lol
    I do feel some anxiety about the approach, but with her actions, who can blame me? How do I go about 'sealing the deal'?


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