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    Ilovelamp87 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Loser needs help.

    I'm hoping anybody out there can help me! Basically sisters friend is this chick I've really had a thing for, we've hooked up a bunch of times and dated. Stuff started to go to hell when I noticed that when I've left the room she would hardcore flirt with my friends. At first I ignored it, but as it progressed I eventually I severed all ties. Problem is my a friend that she tried to fuck in front of me has come back to town. Last night my sister told me to forgive the chick but I said no. My best friend ended up going to the chicks house and fucking her. This girl knows I madly care about her but is now trying to hurt me. She just posted on facebook how she just had the most amazing sex with my friend last night. She's trying to hurt me and I can feel my insides turning in pain. I was always planning on forgiving her, because I seriously dig her.. I'm epitomize an AFC.. please help me!

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    Default Re: Loser needs help.

    Style describes his experiences with oneitis in The Game. Whenever emotions are involved, there is the risk of getting hurt. His recommend cure was going out and sleeping with other gals until he forget about the chick. Probably an idea that he got from Mystery by the sounds of it.

    Sorry that you are dealing with this heavy stuff. It sounds like your "friend" and this girl are not the best influences in your life. I've found that there are much more diplomatic ways to get distance than "severing all ties." As I've gotten older, I've learned how to be around people that I don't like and just not say that much while still acting polite. Seeing as your sister is friends with them it's going to help you to read up about forgiveness (not the same thing as forgetting it happened).

    From your other post, I'd definitely recommend working on Inner Game. I know that I used to bring some of my resentments with me when I went sarging. It didn't help my game. Thankfully I had some great wings and great friends in general who helped me work on the Inner Game, so that I could be the life of the party again. Wishing you the best with this!

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    Default Re: Loser needs help.

    Stop talking to the girl. Completely ignore her, she is feining off your attention. Go out and see other chicks, this time showing more alpha traits so she doesn't flirt with others because she will be too busy trying to chase you. Also, your best friend seems kind of lame for sleeping with her when he knows thats your dish.

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    Default Re: Loser needs help.

    She is definitely not mature enough if she's posts like that on Facebook. Its definitely a suggestion to meet other women before engaging with this one again. And when you do, realize she is not relationship material. Women that are reaction seeking are all drama and know exactly how to keep your heart on a string. There are alot more healthier women out there so let this one go for now until you get your game up.

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    Default Re: Loser needs help.

    A high quality girl would never post that on facebook. that is the most un-classy thing I've ever heard.

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    Ilovelamp87 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Loser needs help.

    First off, I want to thank you ppl for trying to assist me. Being able to vent out a little bit and get some advice, (without any of this coming back to wh*re or bad friend or sister.) I've since taken much of the advice and now workout and even bought the game. I realized in order to build my inner game I've got to remove the negativity within my life. Almost all of this negativity stems from my 'close friends' and wh*re. My plan is to casually brush off friend and to basically act like I never found out wh*re got with him.
    Today I found out that wh*re is going to be at family function on sat that I can't miss. Now if the topic of hanging out with wh*re , ex bf and sister comes up. How do I tell them I never want to hang out with them all together while saving face and not looking like afc??

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    Default Re: Loser needs help.

    You could just bring a chick that was your friend (you wanted to game or not) and have her to hang out with at this function. Or if that isn't possible, have plans to go meet up with other friends or another chick instead of hanging out with your ex. You have to play if off like it doesn't get you you. Don't get emotional and it's probably best to not bring it up. Just play it off like you don't need her at all...she should be the one chasing after you!! Regain you value with her (if you want to get her back, which I wouldn't cause she sounds nuts) or just move on.

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    Default Re: Loser needs help.

    Quote Originally Posted by Ilovelamp87 View Post
    How do I tell them I never want to hang out with them all together while saving face and not looking like afc??
    Wow! That's a tall order. It's great that you are realizing this isn't the kind of girl that you want to date (or guy that you want to be friends with). Making a few cold approaches at the mall might remind you of all the well adjusted girls that are out there. Bringing a female friend to the family function is a good way to boost your confidence and have someone there to support you.

    Really you only need to worry about maintaining your relationship with your sister. You can let the other two (lame friend and the girl) fade into your past. Before talking to any of them about it, you probably want to cool down and vent that steam some more. If you channel this frustration into self-improvement, you'll see some great results in only a few months.

    My wing was telling me that Tyler Durden [Owen Cook] got into The Game because of a bad break up. Seeing as he is one of the leaders of the PUA community, it clearly worked out for him in the long-run. Take heart in knowing that we've all dealt with our share of betrayal and heart-break along the road from where we were to where we want to be.


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