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    newbpua is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default How to pick up girls you already know?

    Hi, and I've just found this community a couple months ago. I've read so many techniques and I've improved a lot. However, how do i pick up a girl I already know? I have tons of girl friends, or acquaintances but i have no idea how i can strike up a flirty or seductive conversation with them. I always find myself in situations when I'm hanging out with a group of friends, and me and a pretty hot girl i kind of know end up together alone. I end up distant and always looking at my phone struggling to think of a way to think of a conversation to start. By now all the previous conversations have died out and I have no idea what to do. I'm looking for improvement and help would be very appreciated.

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    Default Re: How to pick up girls you already know?

    As I see it, if you already know them you have to start in a passive way. Become better, hang out with more girls, become more attractive. Manage to have them know about it. Not in a douche way ("hey, I totally FARKED A GIRL YESTERDAY"), more like it's a normal part of your life ("so, how was your day?" "oh, I was with a girl, we went to a show in [...], that was fun").

    It will affect your social group, but slowly, because they're stuck with the image of you they already have, that kind of stuff takes time - same way than when you get more muscles, people you already know takes time to notice.

    As for striking a conversation with her, well just chat with her you have to improve your conversation skills to be able to strike a conversation with anyone, anywhere, anytime, no matter their age or gender. Orient the conversations to DHV, sexual subjects, but not sentimental relationships - if she starts talking about her dating problems, just eject immediately, even if you have to be rude in the process.

    Conversation with girls you already know is not that different actually; the tricky part is starting a dating process, but if you build enough rapport, you can start meeting her a bit earlier when you have a party, then stay a bit later after the party, etc. Have your private jokes, some memories just of you too, and build some "conspiracy" (not sure it's the good word - talking about the fact that you two share some stuff that no one else knows)

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    Default Re: How to pick up girls you already know?

    You have to show that you are getting laid..they should see you with girls. Girls want want other girls want. To get a girl you should not be scare to loose her, act like you are not trying to impress her. Treat her like just another girl, ad David D'Angelo would put it like "your bratty sister"!


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