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Thread: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

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    Default Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    I'm not joking, I keep getting approached by HB8's-10's and i'm so nervous the conversation wont flow. I just get flustered.

    Just five minutes ago two girls sat right across me, and one of them couldn't keep her eyes off me, kept looking right at me every few seconds.

    So i go and ask them where they are from, and they say from "Turkey". They tell me they are on vacation, then the other HB9 interrupts the other to talk to me. It's like they were fighting for my attention.

    I ask the first HB9 how old she was, and she says "19", and all I could think of saying is "you look older"..... LOL

    I get really awkward at times, my conversational skills really need improving..

    Is there any way to improve quickly and efficiently ?

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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    Yeah, just skip talking and start making out with them.
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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    Talk. Talk to everyone. If you can, get a part time job in a social environment. Meet as many people as you can, strike conversations as much as you can

    Once you're used enough, you won't care whether you're chatting a HB10 or a random old chinese dude on the subway

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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Cody View Post
    Yeah, just skip talking and start making out with them.
    Bro, you serious?

    I probably could have she sat at my table across from me.

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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    Quote Originally Posted by Mikalichov View Post
    Talk. Talk to everyone. If you can, get a part time job in a social environment. Meet as many people as you can, strike conversations as much as you can

    Once you're used enough, you won't care whether you're chatting a HB10 or a random old chinese dude on the subway
    Thanks, i usually do that. I go to my local coffee shop, and talk to everyone, but it's mostly.

    "Hi, how are you?"

    "good"

    "How are you!"

    i do have one person i talk to all the time there, and i guess that's helping me a lot, but i still need to improve.

    Edit: since i have been getting approached like mad, i've been having conversations with a lot of HB's, but i haven't been getting the results i want

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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    Honestly bro the easiest way to keep the conversation going is to "give" them a tidbit that they can relate to and just listen to their stories, but actually listen (which is harder then it sounds). Here is an example from the other night, keep in mind you don't want to use my style as its pretty specific to my personality, area and social circle, and I was talking in a goofy accent the entire time so I'll spell it the best I can.

    Me: Oh vhell herro, what may you name be?

    HB8: HB8 (all the girls I have ever met with her name are whores)

    Me:HB8 eh? Well I have never met a HB8 that I liked. Perhaps you can change that (big flirty smile)

    HB8: What the hell is wrong with HB8's?

    Me: Well if I told you that you wouldn't like me anymore, plus I'm too drunk to have a serious conversation right now, see I am swaying around, that's my giveaway really....blah blah blah story about a dui

    HB8: I messed up my old car really bad because I drove drunk (sad face) and more about what happened that night

    Me: You are much prettier when you smile, beer makes me smile, I bet you want one too!

    We go get a drink. Now this was just a random deal, and completely out of character for me to approach a girl this hot while this drunk, but I just went for it. Notice how I interjected something that I knew we had in common due to the fact we were both at a party.

    The basic idea is to quit worrying, the more you do it the better you get, and honestly the less you care about the outcome the better you do. Practice focus and keeping a good conversation going on with your friends on what not...read the news and find some interesting articles, I even heard a member on here mention a women's site he goes to regularly to get conversation topics they will be interested in. You just have to get shot down through practice and figure out your mistakes.

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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    Quote Originally Posted by pwonager View Post
    Bro, you serious?

    I probably could have she sat at my table across from me.
    As long as you go direct:

    [Credit opener to Sasha Day Game]

    You: Walk over to her all nonchalant, "Hey, (sniffle a little, look at your feet, look around rapidly at anywhere but her. Be an over-the-top AFC. It's funny, because you're about to show her that you're ovbiously not) Uhh, I saw you checkin me out."

    Her: "What?! Haha, no. You must be mistaken." or "Lol, oh you think so do you?"

    You: [Cocky-Funny] "Yeah, look, it's no big deal. This kind of thing happens to me all the time, but you're cute so I figured I'd come over here and get your story."

    Her: "My Story?"

    You: "Yeah, your story. If I like it I might take you out sometime."

    Listen to her story, but constantly interrupt her so she loses thought. "You are really pretty. What's your mom look like? I want to know what you're going to look like when you're older. Don't you have a picture on your phone? Let me see it." "You aren't wearing a lot of makeup, are you? I'm going to be really disappointed if I wake up some morning with you next to me and you left your face on the pillow." "Is that your natural hair color?" "Are your nails real?" Where are your friends? Don't you have friends? You're sitting with all your friends, aren't you "

    Get to this point: "Hey! Don't move. I want to try something." Slowly go for the kiss. If she flips (and she might), keep cool.

    Her: "OMG, WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!?!?"

    You: "Trying to kiss you. You seemed a lot smarter than that. Oh well, I've got sh*t to do. Nice talking to you."

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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    hmm...thanks Cody, interesting moves...but why eject ? if she kisses back isn't she into you?

    Also this girl was sitting at my table, and all the tables around me were all next to each other so it's tough to move around.

    I kind of regret not getting her number, as she was leaving she locked eyes with me, and she smiled and laughed. I'm pretty sure she wanted to get farked LOL

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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    I should have clarified.

    Eject if she shrugs off the kiss, but even then you don't have to if you are still into her.

    You: "Oh, alright. So I'm gonna have to work a little harder for that. That's cool, I'm up for a challenge, but I don't run marathons."
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    Default Re: Keep getting approached by HB's in coffee shop! Any advice ?

    Ok thanks for clearing that up !


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