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    Post Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    Ugh oh my god I am so pissed right now I just want to clarify a couple things before asking my main question no, I haven't asked her to hangout seven days in a row. That's bad texting. What I did do was invite her to come hang out last Monday. she said I can't today so I was going to wait the general 2-3 rule day for texting the same girl but, she asks me to hangout on tuesday I said yea and she flaked. Not a big deal right? Her excuse was I can't hangout today. So I thought whatever. So than I waited until the next day and asked her to hang out. She said yea and at around 8'oclock she didn't show up. So that was Wednesday and I was world class pissed I deleted her number from my phone. But she texts me 2 days later asking me to hang out (I like to think of Mack tactics here. Flee and they will follow.) I said yea but made myself seem less available by saying come at 5. She didn't and waited till 8 to tell me she couldn't. So I ignore her again and she says I'm so sorry blah blah who gives a sh1t blah. I didn't respond to that. So today she texts me saying "ok. 3'oclock your house I said I'm going bowling but come at 5. So again I cancel my plans with other girls to hang with this b1tch and she just blew me off again saying I can't today.

    So I'm really pissed and I'm going to call her out on it today is this message to much?

    If I shouldn't send this message what should I send?


    Oh my Jesus christ why. and you need to tell me this rather than than waiting till I send a text to ask you. Jesus Christ (name omitted) how many days in a row is this? Like 7?? I'm trying to be calm here like legitly I am but god damn if you can't hangout tell me if you don't WANT to hang out tell me!
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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    Seems like she's disrespecting you, how long do you know this girl ?

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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    Exactly! That's what I was thinking. I've known her three months. Recently we were flirting a lot we had a thing and she got into a relationship. So I went over to her apartment and told her if we don't have anything I'm wasting my time please don't text me or call me. She cried when I told her this.
    1 week later she texted me saying she broke up with her boyfriend and that he was annoying/clingy and she misses me so I said ok let's talk about things which lead up to now.
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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    are you sure she broke up with him, sounds like she's afraid something will happen with you, so she keep flaking.

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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    Yea she said she did. But I guess you never truly know.
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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    How's this?

    If your not available to hangout tomorrow I swear to God I'm moving on. I'm really trying here. I've dodged plans with 3 other women waiting for you. Im done waiting.*
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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    don't text her that, she will think she has you around her finger ! I think you should freeze her out, and if she texts you tell her you have a date with someone else.

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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    Firstly don't get angry over a girl you havent scored with yet, it's not worth it when there are so many other girls out there that will make you happy. Never reveal that frustration to her and i wouldnt put it to her as an ultimatum. Always have a few in the pipeline (for all you know she has other guys she's also investigating post breakup or as others have said she may not have completely disconnected from her ex). Secondly I would have told her in setting up the third date 'why should I come and meet you again when you flaked on me twice? Come to my house, I'm not going out of my way but I have a good DVD I'm gonna watch (or whatever)' in a non aggressive matter of fact way. If she has just broken up with someone else she may need an adjust period to get her head on correctly. If you like her always be calm and honest but realistic. Don't be more bad drama in her life and dont allow her to add drama to your life. Just start dating other girls, continue talking to the target to build deeper attraction and trust but aim it so she asks you out again like she did before (she owes you) and make it so she has to come and see you or it's a group thing where you will still have a good time if she's not there or exactly as pwonager said tell her you have another date that night but can she meet another time. Girls can't help but play harder when they have to compete with another girl. Don't make it a situation where you're going off somewhere and waiting alone for her because you have been there done that.

    Flakers and girls who are continually late - not punctual - are annoying and I tend to have a low tolerance for that. I don't have a 3 strike rule, I have 2 strikes. If she flakes second date I move on and she will have to come see me if she wants to hook up 3rd time lucky. I will also only accept genuine family, health or work reasons as an excuse.

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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    Quote Originally Posted by whitedragon View Post
    Firstly don't get angry over a girl you havent scored with yet, it's not worth it when there are so many other girls out there that will make you happy. Never reveal that frustration to her and i wouldnt put it to her as an ultimatum. Always have a few in the pipeline (for all you know she has other guys she's also investigating post breakup or as others have said she may not have completely disconnected from her ex). Secondly I would have told her in setting up the third date 'why should I come and meet you again when you flaked on me twice? Come to my house, I'm not going out of my way but I have a good DVD I'm gonna watch (or whatever)' in a non aggressive matter of fact way. If she has just broken up with someone else she may need an adjust period to get her head on correctly. If you like her always be calm and honest but realistic. Don't be more bad drama in her life and dont allow her to add drama to your life. Just start dating other girls, continue talking to the target to build deeper attraction and trust but aim it so she asks you out again like she did before (she owes you) and make it so she has to come and see you or it's a group thing where you will still have a good time if she's not there or exactly as pwonager said tell her you have another date that night but can she meet another time. Girls can't help but play harder when they have to compete with another girl. Don't make it a situation where you're going off somewhere and waiting alone for her because you have been there done that.

    Flakers and girls who are continually late - not punctual - are annoying and I tend to have a low tolerance for that. I don't have a 3 strike rule, I have 2 strikes. If she flakes second date I move on and she will have to come see me if she wants to hook up 3rd time lucky. I will also only accept genuine family, health or work reasons as an excuse.
    White dragon is good. Do what he said to the T and you will be so much better off.
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    Default Re: Help me call this b1tch out on flaking

    I agree with White Dragon, personally I wouldn't have taken it this far with this girl. When a girl flakes on me with a legitimate reason, I usually say "that's fine" and freeze her out. If she re-engages and puts some work into wanting to meet up again, then I roll with it as she probably has an honest reason for flaking. If she doesn't re-engage, then I delete her # and move on.
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