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    Default Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    So i notice this Redhead keeps staring at me, then she approaches me and asks if i could let her plug her charger so she can charge her phone. So i said "sure", she keeps glancing at me every few minutes, then when the people who were sitting next to me leave she moves in next to me.

    I start making conversation, asking her where she's from. I ask for her name, and then introduce myself. Then i ask her where she lives, and she says..

    Her: "At home with my Husband, and children"

    After that i backed off, and stopped making conversation.. Well she still kept glancing at me every few minutes..

    What the fuck is wrong with women ?? Why is she giving me so many IOI's, and then telling me she's married, and with children.

    Someone please explain the situation...i'm baffled.

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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    Married women need the following things from their man:

    -Love and affection
    -Good sex

    If they don't get either one of those two, they're going to look elsewhere sooner or later. At least that's what the books say.

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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    Married women need the following things from their man:

    -Love and affection
    -Good sex

    If they don't get either one of those two, they're going to look elsewhere sooner or later. At least that's what the books say.
    Yeah, but when i asked her where she lived, why did she answer with

    "At home with my husband, and children"

    If she wants a fling, why say that? seems like mixed messages.

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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    Virgil is right, based on my experience she is telling you upfront that she finds you attractive but she has baggage. So the decision is clearly yours whether you want to proceed forward or not.

    Some would say even though a woman is married or in a relationship doesnt means she is not interested.
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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    Honesty, I guess. A bro of mine is farking a ten-year-older woman who has a boyfriend and two kids. He knew about them long before they ever hooked up. Her relationship is horrible apparently, which is why she'd cheat in the first place.

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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    How do you transition in just having casual sex with a woman so upfront? The transition in this is always shaky.

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    Married women need the following things from their man:

    -Love and affection
    -Good sex

    If they don't get either one of those two, they're going to look elsewhere sooner or later. At least that's what the books say.
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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    Quote Originally Posted by topgunningit View Post
    How do you transition in just having casual sex with a woman so upfront? The transition in this is always shaky.
    Isn't cheating almost always about casual sex? I don't really know, this is new ground for me. My friend is going to commit to her, though.

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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    You havent ventured in this forest? Is it because of morals or the women who part-take in this you find to be unattractive by your standards?

    Quote Originally Posted by Virgil View Post
    Isn't cheating almost always about casual sex? I don't really know, this is new ground for me. My friend is going to commit to her, though.
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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    It's because of my lack of experience. Although I have 29235235 posts, HUGE theoretical knowledge about PUA and experience in the alpha male, inner game and direct approaching, that's really it. Read my journals some time, they tell a lot about me.

    However, if a woman would want to cheat with me, I'd be fine with that. As long as she isn't the girl of a friend or family member. It's her decision to do so.

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    Default Re: Question about Married Women, this baffles me..

    with my limited experience I will say this.

    I had this one chic. She had a man. She let me know upfront about it. Still she continued to push things forward but carefully because in a sense she wants you to take charge. Mind you this can all be very dangerous in a sense that you may not be reading things right, but on my particular scenario she was at my place and we had already been flirting.

    I guess in a sense you have to take her through the emotion progression model per say and make it seem natural. If a woman that is either married or has a bf is at your place and you are running game in a subtle manner but still showing your intent and she is responding with the right signals, then its all on you if you are gonna make the final move or not.

    You just have to remember that KARMA IS A BITCH! soooo its all on you dude.
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