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Thread: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

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    Default So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    Hey guys,

    This might be my last post. Ive tried hard to change who I am and make me a pua and have only gotten rejection and my ego badly bruised.

    Today was my last straw. Started with the cute neighbor Ive been trying to get in bed, coming to my door and asking for a ride somewhere. Even though I later realized it was a chump move, I did decide to give her a ride...to another guy's house.

    I flirted with her along the way and told her she can give me a kiss goodbye. She said "I'll give you a hug". That frustrated me.

    So I texted her later in the day, and was very direct. Telling her "we should start hanging out more, u need to upgrade to guys like me and told her we should get some drinks and go to the beach tn. "

    She got back to my texts but brushed my offer off with excuses....im too angry right now to drink etc. etc.

    I left it gracefully. Later tn she texts me telling me my car is parked too much in the road and to come and fix it...i took this as her wanting to see me. I go out and she's there with another guy who she was just out with. I believe she only had me come out to maybe make that guy jealous. (I talked with him quickly in private and he told me he hadn't farked her yet, and that he's not like that..whatever that means. But he told me his phone is filled with her texts and he doesn't even have to try.)

    After playing with her, her sitting on my car and stuff. I went in, leaving them alone.

    i texted her very bluntly saying...come and see me if u want when purple car leaves...no response.

    Is this girl just playing with me, why isn't she interested in me, but these dorks her own age?
    "I came, I saw, I conquered"- Julius Ceasar

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    Default Re: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    Like does she think all my talk is bs....what do these scrawny dorks have that i don't. I honestly believe she should be melting at a good looking older guy like me asking her out...but no...she spent the night out with this kid..

    Im missing something, and I need it bad. The problem with this pua stuff is everyone has a method, but that method only seems to work for certain peeps. My personality doesn't seem to attract women. Im a cocky guy and I honestly think it's the woman's priviledge that Im talking to her. I easily make fun of the girl and come across as a tough guy...I can't help it.. Thats who I am. I think God or fate has destined me to suffer. Havent been laid in bout 2 months now...my pof site isn't picking anyone up. Im screwed. I wanted to bang this neighbor girl bad...but it's taking all my effort not to get pissed off and text her.
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    Default Re: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    Quote Originally Posted by Ecko30 View Post
    Hey guys,

    This might be my last post. Ive tried hard to change who I am and make me a pua and have only gotten rejection and my ego badly bruised.

    Today was my last straw. Started with the cute neighbor Ive been trying to get in bed, coming to my door and asking for a ride somewhere. Even though I later realized it was a chump move, I did decide to give her a ride...to another guy's house.

    I flirted with her along the way and told her she can give me a kiss goodbye. She said "I'll give you a hug". That frustrated me.

    So I texted her later in the day, and was very direct. Telling her "we should start hanging out more, u need to upgrade to guys like me and told her we should get some drinks and go to the beach tn. "

    She got back to my texts but brushed my offer off with excuses....im too angry right now to drink etc. etc.

    I left it gracefully. Later tn she texts me telling me my car is parked too much in the road and to come and fix it...i took this as her wanting to see me. I go out and she's there with another guy who she was just out with. I believe she only had me come out to maybe make that guy jealous. (I talked with him quickly in private and he told me he hadn't farked her yet, and that he's not like that..whatever that means. But he told me his phone is filled with her texts and he doesn't even have to try.)

    After playing with her, her sitting on my car and stuff. I went in, leaving them alone.

    i texted her very bluntly saying...come and see me if u want when purple car leaves...no response.

    Is this girl just playing with me, why isn't she interested in me, but these dorks her own age?
    dude! not just no but FUCK NO!

    If it was easy to start getting good at things anyone could do it and next thing you know every body would have hot chics.

    This is right now life challenging your inner game. Take this as a learning lesson. Take notes on what you did wrong and could have done better, go back out there and do it again. Think of baseball players. No matter what when they miss the ball, they keep their cool and go at it again. Don't let this chic destroy your inner frame brah!
    To my bros who served with me.
    "When it comes your time to die, be not like those whose hearts are filled with the fear of death, so that when their time comes they weep and pray for a little more time to live their lives over again in a different way. Sing your death song and die like a hero going home.

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    Default Re: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    I can understand your frustration. Seems though direct game isn't working too well with her so you may have to go indirect. I would even suggest making friends with that guy she was talking to. See if he knows anything about PUA and maybe you can get some tips. He created attraction by most likely getting her to want his validation which he doesn't give her. By you being direct is high risk/high reward. Indirect is low risk/low reward. Unfortunately you took the risk and it didn't take.

    Good news is that I can tell you have calmed down from the cockiness. You still have some left, but a little cockiness is good. Remember this takes awhile to get downpat. We will try to point out your sticking points and you can go from there.

    Look into indirect game. Mystery Method is a great foundation to start. Swinggcat is the master at push/pull which will challenge the woman because she will want your validation. Vin DiCarlo has some great material also. No worries man. We all get frustrated even the best of us. That's why we are here for each other. What state are you in btw?

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    Default Re: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    let me put it like this dude. like two weeks ago I had given up like yourself. I was walking around all poopie faced feeling sorry for myself. Then I said here we go again, got dressed and went out and it was epic to the point that I saw what I was doing wrong in the past, chics were opening me and so on. The point I'm trying to make is that you can't let it take you down, learn from it and go at it again.
    To my bros who served with me.
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    Default Re: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    Ecko, my friend you need to study. you did EVERYTHING wrong. The goal of pick up ARTISTRY is to attract women, not chase them. You gave her nothing to chase, no intrigue, no mystery, and worst of all you put yourself in the position of an orbiter. Let's replay your day in the role of a PUA.

    Today was my last straw. Started with the cute neighbor Ive been trying to get in bed, coming to my door and asking for a ride somewhere. Even though I later realized it was a chump move, I did decide to give her a ride...to another guy's house.

    She asked you for a ride.

    You: Ummm, ok I will give you a ride but it's going to cost you a sandwich. I don't want any bologna and bread. I want the works and some lemonade or possibly rootbeer.

    Her: I don't have all that stuff.

    You: I will have the stuff tomorrow you make my sandwich, you go home. That's my offer.

    I flirted with her along the way and told her she can give me a kiss goodbye. She said "I'll give you a hug". That frustrated me.

    You: Now don't be getting any ideas this is just a barter deal, your ride for my sandwich. Don't be getting fresh or getting any dirty ideas, I know how you 18 year olds are these days.

    Her: OMG, I won't.

    You: see that look right there, THAT is what I'm talking about. I'm way to experienced to be playing with you, cut that out.



    So I texted her later in the day, and was very direct. Telling her "we should start hanging out more, u need to upgrade to guys like me and told her we should get some drinks and go to the beach tn. "

    You: Pickles, I want pickles on my sandwich. Hand cut pickles, are you any good at cutting pickles?

    Her: Ha, I can cut pickles.

    You: Fine, I am a man of certain taste. I wan't nothing but the best and by the time I kick you out tomorrow I want to be satisfied.

    She got back to my texts but brushed my offer off with excuses....im too angry right now to drink etc. etc.

    I left it gracefully. Later tn she texts me telling me my car is parked too much in the road and to come and fix it...i took this as her wanting to see me. I go out and she's there with another guy who she was just out with. I believe she only had me come out to maybe make that guy jealous. (I talked with him quickly in private and he told me he hadn't farked her yet, and that he's not like that..whatever that means. But he told me his phone is filled with her texts and he doesn't even have to try.)

    You: Oh wow you too make such a cute couple. I can see you two with the white picket fence, two and a half kids, a two dogs, a chiwawa for you (him) and a rottweiler for you (her). I just love it.

    After playing with her, her sitting on my car and stuff. I went in, leaving them alone.

    Play with her (pull)...hey off the car I just waxed it. (push)

    i texted her very bluntly saying...come and see me if u want when purple car leaves...no response.

    You: I got a great feeling about you two. I can tell when people are going to be together forever and I got just that feeling.

    Is this girl just playing with me, why isn't she interested in me, but these dorks her own age?

    You AFC'd it hard buddy.You have done everything wrong in this situation.

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    Default Re: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    From what you wrote, I think you haven't attracted her enough to make her want to go out with you. She also seems to be playing you. You might also have one-eyetis (having the hots for only one woman) so go out and sarge 10-15 women. I think if she sees you with another hot girl on your arm, that will raise your value in her eyes, shake her ego, and she might want to reconsider you. I like Batman's suggestion, read up on Mystery Method as well as Swingcat. Excellent foundations and tips.

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    Default Re: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    well Kino, then come and teach me. I'll pay your flight up here. I f u get me banging this chick. money's not an object
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    Default Re: So frustrated...cute neighbor worked game and it was brutal

    Batman, Im close to Toronto Ontario....and guys, i have approx 105 women under my belt...when I was a teen, early twenties, I didn't have game but got laid ALOT. I had threesomes, gangbangs...Ive done more then ALOT of guys...but I know I have very little game.
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