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Thread: Girl that thinks you don't have enough in common

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    Default Girl that thinks you don't have enough in common

    What should I say to somebody that thinks we don't share enough in common? Is this something to say just to be nice when not interested? I hit it off with her pretty good. We laughed and smiled all night long on our first date. She was super touchy and we kissed several times that night. I'm baffled what might of gone wrong?

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    Default Re: Girl that thinks you don't have enough in common

    It could be a sh1t test of sorts.
    When people have TOO MUCH in common, that's when things end up getting stale & no fun.

    I would razz her about it & say something like, "yeah, you're right... you like guys, & I like girls. We TOTALLY don't share that in common, this would never work." & then smile at he with a devilish grin.

    Or playfully challenge her to name other things you don't have in common, & tease her every time she says another one.

    Don't assume she's being serious, right off the bat.


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    Default Re: Girl that thinks you don't have enough in common

    I agree with T-Mal. For sure a shit test, especially if your read about her liking is correct. I like T-Mal's suggestion in terms of how you should have responded. I would've gone with, "Thank God we don't have a lot in common. I think I'm way too adventurous for you"
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    Default Re: Girl that thinks you don't have enough in common

    First thing that instantly popped into my mind was to respond with:

    "I actually had the same feeling, but because I'm such an agreeable person I don't mind having you around."
    (Then give a big smile )

    Maybe a bit cocky, so you might have to tone it down a bit, though if you fit that cocky frame, it should do fine. I don't know if you should use this exact one though, since it's better for presentation if it came out instantly.


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