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    Default I Banged one of my GF'S best friends! NOW WHAT?

    Firstly let me just say this was years in the making, and the sexual tension between us was literally of the charts. Keep in mind that neither one of us has openly acknowledged our very deep physical attraction for each other. Our sexual encounter was the reward at the end of very long journey filled with extremely light flirtation, and hardly no verbal escalation at all. I may have farked this girl of mostly off eye contact alone. During the journey We've had our fair share of awkward moment's. However everything came to a boil during one of our last awkward situation's before the actual SEXUAL encounter. I was Throwing a rooftop party. she and I went downstairs to the empty apt to retrieve some supplies. She went into the bathroom, my heart was racing because I wanted to join her. She didn't even close the door all the way. Still I waited. When she came out she stopped right in front of me, looked me in the eye's and ask me if we had everything I needed. After a 2 second pause I said yes. we both smiled and went back upstairs to rejoin the party. I knew it would not be long then. The following week she invited me out to lunch minus my GF. Our conversation went a little like this: Topics as far away from sex related as possible that would always border sex in the end. Then flat out sex conversation. At that point we moved to action. Basically We had a sexual encounter in my car, We sort of agreed that sexual encounters with us we be the norm from this point on. And we also acknowledge the tension leading up to the encounter and that it was over due. This is a secret we are both to keep! But a course of action we said we would repeat in the future. HOWEVER, the very next day she called me and said nothing happened between us and how terrified she was that about be caught. She let me know how it would ruin her friendship and life if her actions were ever discovered. She said she doesn't even want to talk about it ever. IS THIS PANIC THAT WILL BLOW OVER IN TIME? >IS SHE TRYING TO SAVE FACE IN THE WAKE OF HER ACTIONS? . HOW SHOULD I PROCEED ON THIS MATTER?

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    Default Re: I Banged one of my GF'S best friends! NOW WHAT?

    ...So let me get this straight.

    You had sex with this girl who is best friends with your girlfriend, who you agreed to date exclusively? Because that's what a girlfriend is unless otherwise explained. An exclusive monogamous relationship. I'm not trying to rip on you, I just want to make sure that's what you're saying.
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    Default Re: I Banged one of my GF'S best friends! NOW WHAT?

    Sorry if this sounds a bit blunt but DUDE this is totally disrespectful to your GF. This site encourages guys to play the field but in an honest and respectful way. Woman are there to have fun with and to enjoy not to shit on.

    If you want to play the game maybe you should think about ending the relationship with you GF but i think you should keep the cheating part to yourself as it could really hurt her loosing her BF and friend.
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    Default Re: I Banged one of my GF'S best friends! NOW WHAT?

    Slap urself REALLY hard! and then do what Grant c says cuz he's right
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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    Default Re: I Banged one of my GF'S best friends! NOW WHAT?

    Guys, Chill. He's new and probably has some misconceptions on what PU is and isn't.

    I learned this from Virgil: We aren't players, we're pick up artists. There is a difference. Players lie to women in order to get what they want. PUA's don't because they don't have to. I consider dishonesty and immoral conduct lying. I try not to preach morality, but honesty is one I stand firm on because it is a PUA axiom.

    If you want to cheat on your girlfriend, that's cool, but it's not PU. We aren't about that here because we don't NEED to be. All you have to do is tell her that you date multiple women at once. She'll get over it.

    I don't think lowly of you DeviantMethod. We all fall down and get back up. If you want to see other women it would be best not to have a girlfriend. I have one right now and you can bet it's really hard sometimes, but I made a committment.

    Concerning the last part, I wouldn't keep it a secret. They build up inside until they eat you alive.
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    That's a good quote from Virgil and well put Cody this is why you have so many rep points!
    But if he does decide to move on from his girl friend do you really think honesty is the best policy here? Won't it just make matters worse.
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    She deserves to know. If I were her I would want to know, and I bet you would too. Not only is it going to be rough having had her boyfriend cheat on her, but she's going to take a real blow once she knows it was with her best friend. That doesn't sound like a friend to me. She deserves to know how sh*tty of a friend her "best" friend is so she can vindicatively kick her out of her life.

    This is why I got into PU. All my "best friends" b-lined for my ex's the second we broke up and did it all behind my back. It hurts. I deserved to know.
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    Default Re: I Banged one of my GF'S best friends! NOW WHAT?

    These replies are all true. The truth must be told, even though it's going to be difficult to tell a girl you cheated on her with her best friend. That's going to take some extreme alpha balls unlike most of us have ever shown before and I can only hope you're able to grow them that size. I honestly think if you actually confess you may consider yourself a real man.

    If girls you're hitting on ever bring it up, just say that you confessed to her because you wanted to be honest with her and you'd never cheat on a girlfriend again. I think that might be appreciated and even seen as a DHV; you're showing regret and honesty.

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    Default Re: I Banged one of my GF'S best friends! NOW WHAT?

    This will get worse before it gets better. But I've seen guys throw lies upon lies to cover their own tracks. They aren't men anymore. Constantly hiding from everyone and trying to keep their lies intact. You do not want to become this.

    It is very possible to be honest about everything and still get what you want. I even believe that if a woman knows what you are doing with other women and still decides to stay with you, that is NOT outright cheating. Even though this is an unhealthy option.

    Sexual tension is one powerful mofo. I don't blame you for getting involved in it. I think most guys wouldn't last YEARS with that kind of tension. However it's still your responsibility to handle. Since you didn't end it with your gf before this happened, it's best to let her know now because she has the right to choose whether she wants to stay with you after this. It's essentially robbing her of that choice if you don't tell her. I'm sure you would want to know if she did it to you (I'm STD phobic so I have to know these things). Again this will get worse before it's gets better so take it on the chin like a man and handle it. The sooner you do it the better. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Ok cool, i hear you guys, firstly my girl in most cases is my wing. i do nothing behind her back. every one who knows me knows that much. secondly you guys are so quick to criticize me that you did not answer the question. LOOK for the record my GF is a part of this BUT the other girl is not. WHAT I WANT TO KNOW IS WHAT TO SUSPECT FROM THIS OTHER GIRL! AND HOW TO KEEP IT GOING? IS THERE ANYONE ALPHA MALE OUT THERE WHO CAN ANSWER MY QUESTION. A true PUA doesn't have to sneak. Trust me my girl is inside on this deal. my question is about the other girl. Furthermore if you are not married you are single! PUA or not you should know that! Now can someone with experience please not cast a judgement and answer my question.
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