Well we don't know each other for long, just a few months. She reflected a lot of IOIs, but also had a bf which she only told me about after she broke up. I also noticed she's the flirty/manipulative type, and could just be like that to get stuff done for her. I kept it cool and had continued practicing Kino on her until more blatant IOIs and decided to make a move by asking her out on a date to see if she's sincere, and then listening to this scripted speech about how I'm seen as a friend. My only mistake was probably doing a couple of favors for her just because she was stressed out and had exams, though I did them for nothing in return.
Cool. My first time here in the friend zone so I thought I should see this as a new experience.
So from the beginning of this week I did a freeze out. At work I only speak if spoken to, she's the one initiating all conversations and asking me if I need anything etc. For the record I always respond in a nice manner, but never drag on conversations. We also have to go out together for lunch (small workplace) and she's the one who initiates the talking at a ratio of 3 to 1 or so, compared to me initiating it. During our conversations I throw NEGs, DHVs here and there.
She completely fell apart on the 2nd day. She seemed devastated by me not acting like a friend anymore, and our boss told her she could go home early because she doesn't look well. Eventually she did go home early and didn't bother showing up at work on time the next day, and apparently instead messaging the boss saying she ain't feeling well and that she needs to rest. However, she called me after, I didn't pick it up, and called her back after 25 minutes or so to which she asked when I'm going out for lunch and that she could arrange herself according to when I'm going out so we could have lunch together then go back to the office. I gave her a time and we met up (I thought about flaking, but since she's going to come back to work together with me and that we always ate lunch together due to working conditions, I thought that would be a d*ck move, not sure if this was the right call).
She leaves work early again, and my boss comes and asks me what's wrong with her and that she ain't feeling well. The next day when we go to lunch again, on the way she starts talking about how bad she has been feeling and that her blood pressure has gone bad in the past few days (I suspect a guilt trip), so I just tell her it might be because of her diet where she's trying to lose weight and leave it at that.
So what's the next move? I already planned a meet up with a nice girl I haven't seen for a while, and I'm also planning to arrange a hang out with this girl some time in the weekend and flake. What I'm also wondering though is when do I stop and re-enact gaming her? She always looks like she's about to burst into tears when she's talking to me and speaks in a miserable voice tone, do I wait for her to give me some speech about what happened with our friendship or something like that? Or do I make a move? Or should I just move on?
Thanks in advance!