I started dating my ex a year ago.
Due to extreme stress, as well as a cloudy self-medicated pot-brain, I treated her less than she deserved. I would often go 3 or 4 days without returning her calls or texts. I never told her I cared. We had and do have AMAZING chemistry, which I thought was enough.
After 9 months she started to pull away, reconnected with her ex, and has been distant since.
Despite my extreme stresses in other areas of life, I honestly thought we had a great thing going. I was blindsided. This forced me to reevaluate my approach to life. I stopped smoking weeed, lost 20 pounds, started seeing a 10 (who is a 3 in every other respect) and decided not to let my stresses control me.
2 weeks ago I made contact with my ex again. We both agree that we have chemistry that we've never experienced before and are generally in love.
After a few weeks of heavy flirting we fucked last night, but she called it a mistake.
She's doesnt yet see my changes as permanent. She's still hanging out w her EX, and isn't ready to be in a relationship together.
I honestly feel we are in love, but I hurt her before, and she's being cautious.
Questions: should I stop seeing the 10? I don't feel right being with her, don't even enjoy hooking up with her while I have such strong emotions for my ex.
How should I act when with my ex? Try to fuck her? Don't flirt at all?
I'm confused and could use some help here guys...
What would you do if you REALLY wanted this confused girl back? In fact, I'd marry her tomorrow...