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Thread: HB 9 supervising me at work!

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    Default HB 9 supervising me at work!

    Ok, so I recently got a new job in a store and today was my very first day. As part of my training, I was assigned this 20 year old(I'm almost 19) HB 9 to show me around and teach me for the first week or two.

    I kind of know a lot about pick up and have been pretty successful at using it, but I can't muster up the courage to start hitting on a colleage, even though I REALLY want to at least hook up with her.

    I have a pretty direct style, but for some reason something along the lines of "you're outrageously cute" just doesn't come out of my mouth. The reason is twofold:

    1. If things don't go well, working with her will get pretty awkward (primary reason)
    2. She has a boyfriend (secondary, not too worried about it)



    So anyway, today was my first shift with her and I have another one Friday. I can tell that at this rate I'm going to be in the friends zone in no time if I don't start acting soon. Our conversation is too much about work without too much humor/flirting.

    I'd really appreciate some advice!

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    Default Re: HB 9 supervising me at work!

    I don't think it's a good idea to dip the pen in company ink, especially if she is your direct supervisor. I've dated a girl that i've worked with but it was for a large company to where she worked in a different branch. (after dating her for 2 months, she confessed to me she was married, we only fooled around, no sex). The VP of Operations for one of my customer's is a HB10 40+ year old woman who leaves a guy in a trance just looking at her in the eyes. Super cool, flirtatious, single (divorced a few years ago) but I would not go there with her if it came to that. Not worth messing up your career, depending on what your career is.
    Hard work equals hard bodied sexy women in your life. Picking up women = putting in the time and effort go get good at it. Most naturals have put in this time and effort without it appearing as time and effort to them!

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    Default Re: HB 9 supervising me at work!

    Well technically she's not my direct supervisor, she's my coworker. She is only teaching me for the first week or two since I'm new. In addition to that, I'm only going to have the job for about a month, then both of us will go to college(not the same one).

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    Default Re: HB 9 supervising me at work!

    This is definitely an area you have to tread carefully.
    On one hand, "office romances/hookups" do happen all the time, so the odds are in your favor as far as being able to make it happen.

    But on the other hand, if things go sour, it could make for an awkward working environment.


    I'd say the best approach (if you're willing to take a shot) would be to razz her like she's your sister. Tell her things like, "You're doing that totally wrong..." or "you are SOOO gonna screw that up..."
    But smile & say it in a funny way, so the flirting comes through.

    You could even go with a compliment/take away "Wow, you're really good at that! For a major dork that is..."

    Or "Dang! You must practice this at home in your spare time, you really need to get out more!"

    It might open the door for more interactions.


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    Default Re: HB 9 supervising me at work!

    You might be right, but since she's training me I feel like I'm not in position to tell her what she's doing wrong, you know what I mean?
    That neg just seems so out of place because she's the one that knows how things get done there, and I'm the noob that's learning.

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    Default Re: HB 9 supervising me at work!

    Quote Originally Posted by Gwkiller69 View Post
    You might be right, but since she's training me I feel like I'm not in position to tell her what she's doing wrong, you know what I mean?
    That neg just seems so out of place because she's the one that knows how things get done there, and I'm the noob that's learning.
    Exactly....
    That's why if you DID go that route, you have to make sure you do it with confidence AND humor, so she doesn't take it the wrong way.

    You'd almost have to be sooooo over the top about it so she knows you're messing with her & giving her a hard time, and actually flirting.

    OR.... (currently this is a great topic with girls.) Bring up the "50 Shades of Grey" trilogy.
    Say something like, "Hey, are you familiar with this "50 Shades of Grey thing? I keep hearing people talk about it & I have NO idea what it's about..."

    If she HAS read it, (which is likely) she'll get totally energetic & start talking 100 miles per minute about it!!

    There are lots of ways to infer interest in her, without coming across like the average schmuck.


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    Default Re: HB 9 supervising me at work!

    Good point, i'll try that tomorrow. I understand what you mean now, its like a sarcastic neg. Something along the lines of "oh, what do you know about making pizza? you've only been here 2.5 years!"

    And as for the 50 Shades of Grey, I've been using that a lot lately when I want the conversation to turn sexual. It's probably the best method to change the direction of the wind without her noticing it was on purpose. You know, staying under the radar and seeming innocent when you're actually directing a conversation.

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    Default Re: HB 9 supervising me at work!

    Quote Originally Posted by Gwkiller69 View Post
    Good point, i'll try that tomorrow. I understand what you mean now, its like a sarcastic neg. Something along the lines of "oh, what do you know about making pizza? you've only been here 2.5 years!"

    And as for the 50 Shades of Grey, I've been using that a lot lately when I want the conversation to turn sexual. It's probably the best method to change the direction of the wind without her noticing it was on purpose. You know, staying under the radar and seeming innocent when you're actually directing a conversation.
    Yep!! 50 shades is great for that!!
    You get a girl talking a bout books & then BANG! Still about books but now you opened the sexual door & she's freely discussing it.
    That make it easy to segue into deeper topics!

    In fact, I mention the 50 shades thing in my online dating profile. It's like a chick magnet!!
    LOL!


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    Default Re: HB 9 supervising me at work!

    Thanks guys, but I'd still like to hear some more opinions!

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