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    anelka112 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl confusing the hell out of me?

    so i met this gorgeous lady on my local record shop. i open her with opinion opener on what Movie to reccomend. we end up chatting for 20 minutes. she first tells me about her very busy life and her not wanting a boyfriend at the moment bla bla bla....
    after that it turns out we have a lot in common and she is quite amazing so i compliment her a lot. but she says she is very busy during the days bla bla bla... before i left i got her phone number and called her up a few days later we chat a bit on the phone i tell a lot of jokes and some comfort shit, after 10 minutes she tells me she is in the gym and then proceeds to ask me what i have in mind.. i tell her im keen to meet her for a short cofee break . then she tells me that she has no intrest to have a relationship at the moment due to her busy schedule. i tell her i have no intrest in that iether and that we should just be friends and see how things proceed. she hesitates a lot on the phone i try to make fun of her and the situation but she keeps being serious. she then tells me in very charming but she has to decline my offer for a date becouse she is too busy and then she asks me what time i had i mind i tell her i don't know what time becouse it depends on my schedule as well.. i tell her im busy too.. she also says she doesn't know me blah blah blah. i tell her that the only way for us to get to know eachother is to meet?

    two days later i sent her a text asking her to meet me up at my local cofee shop but she declined it. says she has too much to do...i then sent a text and made fun of her but she didn't reply of that as of yet..


    what should i do to get her to get out with a date with me? ive met a dozen girls before but this one has a stunning personality and looks. im thinking of waiting two weeks then trying again. by first calling her up then chatting a bit. what am i doing wrong? i know most of you will tell me to forget her. but tbh she is the most amazing girl ive ever met. to not date her would be a crying shame. i even told her on the phone that.


    if she wasn't intrested in me she wouldn't have chatted with me for 20 odd minutes and gave me the correct number now would she?
    but judging from her reaction on the phone she doesn't seem keen to meet for some reason?

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    Default Re: Girl confusing the hell out of me?

    Well if you're saying things to her like "it would be a crying shame not to date you" that's your first problem. You're putting her value higher than yours. She's hesitant because you're not acting alpha you're acting like an AFC. You say you've only met a dozen women before? If that's total you need more practice at the art of pickup. Your frame should be that she's the one who's lucky to be with you.

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    Default Re: Girl confusing the hell out of me?

    Yes she is interested, but perhaps you aren't challenging her enough. You admitted that you told her she was amazing and that not dating her would be a crying shame. This is extremely risky since you haven't even gotten a kiss close yet. So my advice is to become alittle more challenging by interpreting everything she says or does as either hitting on you or trying to sleep with you. Make it playful and fun and don't overdo it. And don't be afraid to tell her "No" sometimes or letting her know that her behavior is messing up her chances with you. If done in a not so cocky way, she will receive it as genuine and see you as a challenge. Hope this helps and good luck.

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    Default Re: Girl confusing the hell out of me?

    i guess next time i call i should be a bit more "cold" in my tune.. if she asks what i have in mind im gonna tell her i just want to speak to have a chat and thats it. and that she should "behave" for even asking that question?

    i guess just end the phone call with no date suggestions etc..

    then another phone call again a few days later and suggest that we meet up but in a diffrent way i guess?


    could that work perhaps?

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    Default Re: Girl confusing the hell out of me?

    Well you have already suggested a few meet ups so you may want to step back from that for a bit. And you don't want to be a complete douche. You only get away with that after a certain amount of attraction, value, and compliance combined. Having convos with her without making plans is a good idea. Although something tells me about what you wrote that it's possible she may be looking for a booty call or FWB. If she wants to meet up, but not get to know each other it's usually a dead giveaway. But I could be wrong.

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    Default Re: Girl confusing the hell out of me?

    she did say that she doesn't like to preplan any meeting and that it should be spontaneous etc.very odd.she lives about 1 hour from my town. so complete spotaneous is impossible with her. it has to be preplanned atleast the same day... and i remember when i spoke to her i asked if she was a nice girl and she said that she wasn't that nice at all always... also she says that she likes to go out to nightclubs alone ?

    very odd .. she could be one of those night club junkie girls who just don't have any relationships at all.. emotionally unstable? slutty?

    i don't know.

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    Default Re: Girl confusing the hell out of me?

    Yes it's very possible. I've met a woman that would go out alone and that's EXACTLY what she was looking for. I thought it odd until I found out her intentions then it made sense. I should find more women like that lol.


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