Top 10 Stats
Latest Posts Loading... Loading...
Loading...
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Loading...
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

Results 1 to 5 of 5
  1. #1
    jackedbudday780 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 60, Level: 1
    Level completed: 20%, Points required for next Level: 40
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    3
    Points
    60
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default How often to contact girl I just started dating?

    Hey guys. I met a girl on OKC about 1 month ago, we messaged back and forth etc. Anyways I met her a couple weeks ago in person. No kiss first date just a hug, it just wasn't appropriate at the time. Second date, kissed her and then fucked her at my place and she stayed the night. Third date, she made me dinner and then I fucked her. This was Tuesday. I didn't stay over because I had to work early, she wanted me to.

    Anyways, she texted me on Wednesday, saying, "I hope you the commute wasn't too bad" and "have a nice day". I texted back a quick message.

    She told me she is going out of town this weekend because its her mom's birthday.


    Anyways, should I text her today just to say what's up, or wait till Sunday? I do like this girl and would like to see her again.

    Also, I still have my OKC account and have been talking to other girls (haven't met in person) just so I don't get oneitis. Bad move?

  2. #2
    T-Mal's Avatar
    T-Mal is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,222, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Posting Award
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Southern Michigan USA
    Posts
    2,558
    Points
    31,222
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 9 Times in 8 Posts
    Rep Power
    1391

    Default Re: How often to contact girl I just started dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by jackedbudday780 View Post
    Hey guys. I met a girl on OKC about 1 month ago, we messaged back and forth etc. Anyways I met her a couple weeks ago in person. No kiss first date just a hug, it just wasn't appropriate at the time. Second date, kissed her and then farked her at my place and she stayed the night. Third date, she made me dinner and then I farked her. This was Tuesday. I didn't stay over because I had to work early, she wanted me to.

    Anyways, she texted me on Wednesday, saying, "I hope you the commute wasn't too bad" and "have a nice day". I texted back a quick message.

    She told me she is going out of town this weekend because its her mom's birthday.


    Anyways, should I text her today just to say what's up, or wait till Sunday? I do like this girl and would like to see her again.

    Also, I still have my OKC account and have been talking to other girls (haven't met in person) just so I don't get oneitis. Bad move?
    If the momentum is going well with a girl (or several girls) I personally keep it going.
    I've been texting 3 - 4 different girls every day for the past couple weeks. Sometimes we're blowing each other's phones up, & sometimes it's a quick text just to keep me on her mind.

    But always make the texts fun & silly.

    There's no set rule for how long to wait before texting her back.
    Although, when they go out of town to visit, or on vacation, I generally just send one or two messages & playfully give her a hard time for being on vacation & having fun without me.

    Something like "Hey, you BETTER at least send me a picture of the beach.."

    or

    OK bratty-pants, I know you're eating something yummy... snap a pic & let me see."

    I don't overload them or monopolize their time when they're away. But I DO make sure they know I'm thinking about them & making sure they're thinking about me.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

  3. #3
    jackedbudday780 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 60, Level: 1
    Level completed: 20%, Points required for next Level: 40
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    3
    Points
    60
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: How often to contact girl I just started dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    If the momentum is going well with a girl (or several girls) I personally keep it going.
    I've been texting 3 - 4 different girls every day for the past couple weeks. Sometimes we're blowing each other's phones up, & sometimes it's a quick text just to keep me on her mind.

    But always make the texts fun & silly.

    There's no set rule for how long to wait before texting her back.
    Although, when they go out of town to visit, or on vacation, I generally just send one or two messages & playfully give her a hard time for being on vacation & having fun without me.

    Something like "Hey, you BETTER at least send me a picture of the beach.."

    or

    OK bratty-pants, I know you're eating something yummy... snap a pic & let me see."

    I don't overload them or monopolize their time when they're away. But I DO make sure they know I'm thinking about them & making sure they're thinking about me.
    Nice thanks, I don't want to text her everyday because I am busy (so is she) and that's a burden. What about me keeping my OKC account? The issue with that is, it shows when I've been online and my last time online, and she's visited my page a couple times as she still has her account maybe to check that.

  4. #4
    T-Mal's Avatar
    T-Mal is offline PUA All Star
    Points: 31,222, Level: 100
    Level completed: 0%, Points required for next Level: 0
    Overall activity: 0%
    Achievements:
    Social25000 Experience Points31 days registered
    Awards:
    Posting Award
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Southern Michigan USA
    Posts
    2,558
    Points
    31,222
    Level
    100
    Thanks
    3
    Thanked 9 Times in 8 Posts
    Rep Power
    1391

    Default Re: How often to contact girl I just started dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by jackedbudday780 View Post
    Nice thanks, I don't want to text her everyday because I am busy (so is she) and that's a burden. What about me keeping my OKC account? The issue with that is, it shows when I've been online and my last time online, and she's visited my page a couple times as she still has her account maybe to check that.
    Ahhhh yeah....
    That's one of those things that could get to be a little sticky.
    I used OKC for a little while... I think the only way to not show the last time you logged in, is to hide your profile.

    Now, there IS another option... (albeit somewhat sneaky)
    Create a second (fake) account just for browsing the site & gathering info on the girls you might want to contact.

    Then, once you have a few of them written down, login with your regular account & message them.

    BUT... ALSO message the girl you're already seeing. Something like "I just LOVE looking at your pics & reading your goofy profile! " Then log out.
    (Ya' with me on this part?)

    That way, she sees you logged in, but sent HER a message.

    Go back to the fake profile for more browsing, repeat process....

    All she'll notice is that you're checking her out & messaging her occasionally, just to be silly/sweet/goofy etc.

    The other 2 options would be: Don't use OKC anymore.... or.... Just tell her you're still checking out the girls.
    (That one doesn't always go over well.)

    Best bet would be, put it on hold for a while.
    Anyway, there are a few options/idea for you to ponder.


    Need one on one private coaching? PM me for details.

  5. #5
    jackedbudday780 is offline Aspiring PUA
    Points: 60, Level: 1
    Level completed: 20%, Points required for next Level: 40
    Overall activity: 0%
    Join Date
    Jul 2012
    Posts
    3
    Points
    60
    Level
    1
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
    Rep Power
    0

    Default Re: How often to contact girl I just started dating?

    Quote Originally Posted by tmalonetn View Post
    Ahhhh yeah....
    That's one of those things that could get to be a little sticky.
    I used OKC for a little while... I think the only way to not show the last time you logged in, is to hide your profile.

    Now, there IS another option... (albeit somewhat sneaky)
    Create a second (fake) account just for browsing the site & gathering info on the girls you might want to contact.


    Then, once you have a few of them written down, login with your regular account & message them.

    BUT... ALSO message the girl you're already seeing. Something like "I just LOVE looking at your pics & reading your goofy profile! " Then log out.
    (Ya' with me on this part?)

    That way, she sees you logged in, but sent HER a message.

    Go back to the fake profile for more browsing, repeat process....

    All she'll notice is that you're checking her out & messaging her occasionally, just to be silly/sweet/goofy etc.

    The other 2 options would be: Don't use OKC anymore.... or.... Just tell her you're still checking out the girls.
    (That one doesn't always go over well.)

    Best bet would be, put it on hold for a while.
    Anyway, there are a few options/idea for you to ponder.
    Smart lol. I will do that. I'm going to keep my account until she mentions it.

    Also, the texting problem was solved as she texted me.


Similar Threads

  1. Did I just ruin it with a girl I started texting?
    By Kil4pinkphat in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 15
    Last Thread: 06-06-2012, 05:15 PM
  2. I Started Liking this girl
    By meli083 in forum Help Getting A Girlfriend
    Replies: 2
    Last Thread: 10-08-2011, 01:44 AM
  3. Started Dating but now things are weird?
    By bruceleestatus in forum Online And Text Game
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 08-06-2011, 11:36 AM
  4. How do I start a convo with a girl who gives eye contact and looks down?
    By compgeni in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 9
    Last Thread: 08-07-2010, 02:07 PM
  5. This Girl (the one who started it all)
    By billypuddels in forum Approaching, Running Sets & Building Attraction
    Replies: 3
    Last Thread: 10-31-2009, 12:25 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  
DMCA.com