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    Exclamation Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    Hey everyone,

    i'm new here and i need help. There's this girl in my school she's really beautiful like natural looking gorgeous lady. it's only been a few weeks since we've met. But the first 2 weeks in school (i didn't know her yet) i caught her looking at me alot, like 4x a day or more. But the sad thing is that she has a boyfriend. but as days go by i was at the same lounge in school as she is, that's the time i grew some balls and finally approached her and introduced myself. she's been hanging out with me and a few of her friends and her focus is always on me whenever we're in groups. She's the type of girl who'd hit on cute guys who dress up classy or goodlooking. Am i friendzoned? or whatever.. She seems like she's so inlove with her boyfriend yet she flirts with me reciprocating the things i do.



    Help anyone?
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    Default Re: Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by thegameWZRD View Post
    Hey everyone,

    i'm new here and i need help. There's this girl in my school she's really beautiful like natural looking gorgeous lady. it's only been a few weeks since we've met. But the first 2 weeks in school (i didn't know her yet) i caught her looking at me alot, like 4x a day or more. But the sad thing is that she has a boyfriend. but as days go by i was at the same lounge in school as she is, that's the time i grew some balls and finally approached her and introduced myself. she's been hanging out with me and a few of her friends and her focus is always on me whenever we're in groups. She's the type of girl who'd hit on cute guys who dress up classy or goodlooking. Am i friendzoned? or whatever.. She seems like she's so inlove with her boyfriend yet she flirts with me reciprocating the things i do.



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    Cheers xx

    It's hard to tell from this bit of info.

    SOME girls are just naturally friendly/playful/touchy/kida flirty, even if there's no interest in being anything more than friends.

    But, she could be looking for a reason to dump her current boyfriend.... ?

    I'd say just keep flirting back, & then turn up the thermostat on your dialogue so to speak. Start gradually making conversations a little more sexual. Not real blunt, but use innuendos whenever possible.
    You can gauge her interest by how she reacts to that.



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    Default Re: Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    Oh thanks man, great idea!
    Is there a need for me to impress her even more?
    i've told her that i play international football, i do cool things such as hangout chill party etc.
    Will that even work? or make her like me even more?

    she's been with her boyfriend for 15months now, should i step in and keep it smoooth?


    thanks man for the big help!

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    Default Re: Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by thegameWZRD View Post
    Oh thanks man, great idea!
    Is there a need for me to impress her even more?
    i've told her that i play international football, i do cool things such as hangout chill party etc.
    Will that even work? or make her like me even more?

    she's been with her boyfriend for 15months now, should i step in and keep it smoooth?


    thanks man for the big help!
    Definitely don't try to impress her!! That frames you as being lower status / lower value.
    It's ok to talk about your hobbies & stuff, to show her how passionate you are about them, but don't come off as bragging or like you're trying to impress.

    The best thing to do is get her talking about herself!!
    That way, she's investing more in you, which creates value in her mind.

    Don;t just "tell her" about the fun things you do, but rather "show her" by doing them.
    Be kinda chill about it, & don't act like you're over-eager & super interested or that trying to get her.

    BUT... DO show SOME interest by flirting / teasing & that sort of stuff.

    You don't want to make her think you're trying to butt in & break her & her BF up....
    all you want to do is demonstrate how much fun & how cool you are, so that it gets her chasing you.

    If her boyfriend is less interesting & less funny... she'll get rid of him for someone who can offer more.


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    Default Re: Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    Ooooooohh now i know, gonna have to keep it smoooth, and make sure i show her that i'm interested. She's been in my head all day. Yesterday i bought her a croissant cause i teased her and i didn't know it was her PMS. So i had to make up for it. And after school she came up to me and said "THANK YOU SO MUCH" happily. Like nothing happened.


    Just curious if she does break up with her boyfriend, do i leave her alone for a bit, and give her space and time? if i do. for how long?

    thanks man! great help.

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    Default Re: Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    I'd say, if she DOES happen to dump her current BF, swoop in like a hawk.... but more like a James Bond sort of hawk! LOL!

    Be cool & chill, as far as attitude goes, but definitely make your move quickly.
    Because all the other guys out there will be moving in too.

    Also- I think you handled the PMS teasing thing with the croissant perfectly! Sometimes guys get too caught up & worried about "spending money or buying drinks / food" etc... & think they can't or shouldn't do it at all.

    I disagree with that. There are times when it's totally cool to do that, & what you did was golden!

    So I think you're probably handling this the right way & showing her you also have a sweet side, in addition to be fun & cool & all that stuff.

    Keep it up man!!


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    Default Re: Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    Haha "my names BOND.. James Hawk Bond"
    Yeah man i was really urged to get her a croissant i had to ask her girl bff what she likes either cookies or that but ended up with the croissant, i had one of my friends from her class to give it to her, since i couldn't get in her class. I'm glad you liked my idea. Thanks man
    If all of this goes well, and if we do get to be together in the end. I owe it all you. Incase they do break up. I want it to be natural not by force, don't wanna be a dick and ruin them both.

    Anyways.

    tmalonetn,
    Cheers man! for real.

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    Default Re: Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    Quote Originally Posted by thegameWZRD View Post
    Haha "my names BOND.. James Hawk Bond"
    Yeah man i was really urged to get her a croissant i had to ask her girl bff what she likes either cookies or that but ended up with the croissant, i had one of my friends from her class to give it to her, since i couldn't get in her class. I'm glad you liked my idea. Thanks man
    If all of this goes well, and if we do get to be together in the end. I owe it all you. Incase they do break up. I want it to be natural not by force, don't wanna be a d1ck and ruin them both.

    Anyways.

    tmalonetn,
    Cheers man! for real.
    Thanks!

    Also- you're smart to not want to be a d1ck about it & "break them up"...
    But definitely start planting seeds, as far as playing it cool & getting her interested in you... AND expressing a little interest in her as well.

    Just be super friendly & funny, & mix in a little flirting & teasing.... And don't forget to keep building your social circle/social value.
    THAT ALONE will reap massive rewards!



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    Default Re: Need help on a girl who flirts back but has a boyfriend

    Hey man they broke up! but they're still kinda like still mingling man. What should i do? they still see each other etc..


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