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    charliesheen92 is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default how many approaches should you do a day if you're starting out

    I'm not being agressive enough in my journey to become a ladies man. My initial plan was to do 5 approaches a day, and I did but only for 3 days in a row, then Stopping for one day turned into weeks and I fell out of the loop. I understand that If I do nothing I will get worse so I need a goal to set for myself. I know you experts we're once in my position searching for answers to the question: "If I know what I want in life why do I care about the rejections I receive?". I care too much about people's opinion of me. Thanks guys, if it's 10 a day or 20 a day, so be it, I want to get better but step 1 is forming a habit of approaching daily.

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    Default Re: how many approaches should you do a day if you're starting out

    Seems you have AA. I have it too, infact everyone does at one point. For just strting out what I do is talk to everyone just to be more social. If i run into a girl i find cute i will run game. Its just a matter of getting used to talking with females. I dont purposely go out to the mall or anything to run game because i am way too busy for that so i just run it on people i run into at gas stations, stores, restraunts, hell even work. If you plan on going out dont have a goal, just do it.

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    Default Re: how many approaches should you do a day if you're starting out

    first of all, almost every1 had this problem (except some naturals), secondly the more the better until you get used to it..
    to destroy AA, you need to act fast, which means, if you see a girl, you have a 3 second chance of approaching, if you dont immediately, you will start thinking about her rejecting you or im gonna make a fool of myself etc etc..
    JUST DO IT..
    what i found best was to play a game with my mate, you see a girl and tell your m8 to approach her, then its his turn to choose 1 for you, if you dont approach, you have to pay your m8 an amount of money set up before starting. that way you WILL approach, because you dont want to lose money
    The Worst thing I can be is the same as everybody else. I'd Hate that!

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    Default Re: how many approaches should you do a day if you're starting out

    Alright, here's your definitive answer.

    There is no set number

    We can't tell you what it'll take for you to get better. We aren't mind readers. Some people get over AA with 2 approaches a day, some don't get it sorted till after 100 approaches. It varies based on who you are.

    So here's what I'm going to tell you to do. Bobat referenced it a little bit. It's called the 3 second rule. You've got 3 seconds after seeing a cute girl to make your move. If you don't start walking towards her in 3 seconds, then that's it. You missed your chance at getting to know a beautiful girl. The key is to minimize the amount of thought you put into it, cause that's where AA comes from.

    Good luck man. If you need any more help send me a PM
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