This friend is my best friend and I wouldn't let a girl screw our relationship up. But I'm curious about what's going on here.
When us three hang out, she flirts with us both.
She cuddles with him, gets piggy back rides from him, they hold each other and ****, things like that.
At the same time, she tells me she wants to kiss me, asks me if I would date her, says things like "would you get mad if I kissed you?". Calls me handsome, always takes photos of us together.
My friend and I notice this but we don't have a problem with it cause we're just really good friends and we don't allow this to ruin our friendship.
I tease her, make her laugh constantly, flirt back sometimes. Shes confused as to whether I like her or not. I give her attention and take it away, sometimes I act like I like her and sometimes I ignore her. Her interest seemed to spike.
My buddy doesn't flirt back, but they've kissed a few times, the kissing has stopped about a month ago though and nothing is happening between them.
What I'm wondering here is, is she actually attracted to one of us or is she just doing it for the attention? She is showing genuine ioi's here and I do want to get with her, but at the same time I don't want to be played by a girl who only wants attention.