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    HughMirin is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Girl flirts with a friend and I at the same time, shows me IOI's, wants att

    This friend is my best friend and I wouldn't let a girl screw our relationship up. But I'm curious about what's going on here.

    When us three hang out, she flirts with us both.

    She cuddles with him, gets piggy back rides from him, they hold each other and ****, things like that.

    At the same time, she tells me she wants to kiss me, asks me if I would date her, says things like "would you get mad if I kissed you?". Calls me handsome, always takes photos of us together.

    My friend and I notice this but we don't have a problem with it cause we're just really good friends and we don't allow this to ruin our friendship.
    I tease her, make her laugh constantly, flirt back sometimes. Shes confused as to whether I like her or not. I give her attention and take it away, sometimes I act like I like her and sometimes I ignore her. Her interest seemed to spike.

    My buddy doesn't flirt back, but they've kissed a few times, the kissing has stopped about a month ago though and nothing is happening between them.
    What I'm wondering here is, is she actually attracted to one of us or is she just doing it for the attention? She is showing genuine ioi's here and I do want to get with her, but at the same time I don't want to be played by a girl who only wants attention.

    Thanks guys

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    Default Re: Girl flirts with a friend and I at the same time, shows me IOI's, wants

    She's doing it for both

    A girl like that definitely likes the attention, but she's also interested. She's interested because she doesn't know if she can have you. If she was confident about it she wouldn't need the validation of your attention, but since she's not sure she keeps fishing for more.

    You can certainly get with her if you keep the push/pull dynamic going. If you suddenly show too much interest she's gonna change her mind. Keep teasing her, stay in control and lead her but tease her so she thinks it's her taking the steps - if that makes sense
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    Default Re: Girl flirts with a friend and I at the same time, shows me IOI's, wants

    Yeah, with a girl like that its important to keep her on her toes. I think its really a test from the girl. She doesn't actually think this conciously, but how you guys react to her in such a situation tells her A LOT. If you want to get her keep up the push-pull dynamic. If you flat out reject her, she'll move on. If you suck up to her and show too much interest she'll see that she has you in the bag and leave. Keep her guessing, push-pull while escalating at the same time.

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    Default Re: Girl flirts with a friend and I at the same time, shows me IOI's, wants

    Definately with the red baron on this one.
    "The world will never change much less become what you want it to be. The only thing that can change is you. Face your fears, grow stronger and become what you want to be."
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