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Thread: Approach attractive girl after locking eye contact on public transport?

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    Talking Approach attractive girl after locking eye contact on public transport?

    Time and time again, I will be sitting on the train on my way to work in the city.. An attractive girl will get on the train.. she'll look at both sides of the carriage and most often we'll make eye contact if she notices me. We'll lock eyes and she might smile if she is game enough (I give a friendly, but not overly-friendly smile if you get what I mean) and it'll be sexy .. but if we made eye contact from a distance... she will generally just freeze and sit where she is standing just out of being shy I reckon, sometimes she will just sit near me - this is still hard as I will have to make up some BS reason to talk to her (any good pointers here?).... but when its farther away then its even harder as it's just like well f*ck.. it's a big investment not only from my point of view but also from hers too if she sees me coming all the way over to approach her. Unless I had something killer to say to her like something personal about her that I could visibly see, any pick up attempt would be seen a mile away.

    When these girls get off the train, however, it's like a sharp pain hits me as I say goodbye to any chance I had with these prospects.

    What's a non-pathetic way to strike up a conversation with these attractive strangers without coming off as someone they will need to avoid?

    It's just that whenever I see anyone walking around on the carriages.. they may be looking for a newspaper or looking at signs/maps on the walls.. but if they are wandering around looking bored.. it's just like.. holy sh*t.. this guy is a f*cking drug addict..
    Can't help it.. it's automatic... I don't want to be that guy as I approach the girl haha.

    Cheers guys

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    Default Re: Approach attractive girl after locking eye contact on public transport?

    The eyes never lie. You can tell if she is looking at you versus glancing at you. Locking eye contact followed by a genuine smile (not the courtesy smile) is a powerful IOI and you can just go ahead and walk all the way over there and say "Let me scooch in here (sit in the next to her so you aren't standing over her). Hi, I'm lxd123. I noticed you and just HAD to introduce myself." This is considered Direct Game so if you have the eye contact and your body language is confident this should be a breeze. Have some convo then hand her your number, just before either one of you gets off, and say "This is just in case you're in the mood for taking chances." That's it. It's really not about being the most clever or fancy with your words. Sometimes the simplicity of your game has the real beauty.

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    Default Re: Approach attractive girl after locking eye contact on public transport?

    Hey BatMan. Thanks for the reply. I've never really gone direct unless I've just been in the best energetic mood ever or been fairly drunk (and hence in a really good mood) - I'm quite reluctant to use cheesy openers or the 'I noticed you from over there and thought I had to tell you that you are beautiful.. I'm blah blah"- Do guys actually use this??? serious question :/ - as I'd feel as though the mystery is over. I think a lot of tension comes from the girl not completely knowing for sure whether you're open for business or not.. That doesn't mean in any way I'm going to conceal my attraction for her - I'll do it covertly through jokes, body contact, looking at her lips, eye contact and generally showing her that I'm enjoying and am comfortable with her being there.. Once you say you think she's beautiful though it seems like everything would be out in the open and she has all the cards in her hands, and could make her feel as though she can take it or leave it. Does anyone agree with this???

    But I do quite like that last bit.. handing her the number for if she would like to take her chances. It's a positive message encouraging her to walk on the wild side and remember that its about acting on the spur of the moment sometimes, taking chances and living life.

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    Default Re: Approach attractive girl after locking eye contact on public transport?

    I never say a woman is beautiful in the first meet. Actually it takes me a long time before I say anything about her physicality. I wait until we reach a connection. Compliment on her sense of style though. When you are direct just have the mindset "I'm interested, but not sold yet" Then all your behavior and words towards her will reflect this. Burn this mindset as a true belief and you'll slowly notice that beautiful women have the same imperfections as unattractive ones for the most part. And you begin to relax around them.

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    Default Re: Approach attractive girl after locking eye contact on public transport?

    If you got the eyes she will open SUPER EASILY. I swear you walk up and say the dumbest shit, she will just giggle and be friendly. If you already got the eyes you don't need a pickup line. I swear, I had this happen JUST TODAY at a supermarket. I walked up and just asked for her name, then the convo just kind of progressed automatically with some rapport(what she's looking for in the store, whatever). Number closed in like 2 minutes.
    I swear, I've yet to see a girl that gives you the eyes and doesn't open easily.

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    Default Re: Approach attractive girl after locking eye contact on public transport?

    If eye contact is still going, I think the best way to approach is to simply sit down next to her smiling. Do not focuse on her, otherwise u will feel nervous, before aproaching just think you want to have and enjoy a nice conversation with this girl u like.
    (For doing well, a good exercise is, before approaching, try thinking a situation with another girl u once were really successfull and full of confidence, just enjoying it!!! having fun with her!! and u will automatically do good. With no worries)
    So once u just approached, give an indirect opener, think sthing interesting, I think the best is to ask her the opinion on sthing FUNNY. Afterwards, the game started just use PNL at the same time u make kino with your legs/shoulders in a smooth way.
    In this case of occassion u just must create your own reality so seriously!!
    Hope it helps in sthing!


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