In the past month, I have joined POF and Ok Cupid. I found two girls who I messaged and are enjoying my conversation very much. I don't want to be an asshole to either one of them. At one point I sent multiple messages to both of them because I was worried that they had stopped talking to me. One replied with an angry response and what not. I had to explain myself before she answered me again. The other just replied with Hey, sorry it has been a crazy week! I will talk to you later. Which one do I go for first? How do I say no without sounding like an asshole. Should I keep talking to the girl I don't date in case it doesn't work out with the one I do date. What is most important to look for in a their profiles and what they say in order to make the best decision? Again, I am having great conversations with both of them. Please help! Thanks.