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    rdhgdet is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Where did I go wrong?

    I'm at a party, it's almost all other military guys, and one girl shows up. She ended up coming up and talking to me, she starts kinda following me around, we start flirting, I'm giving her shit, at one point she's following me around like a puppydog. We're touching a little, etc, etc, she keeps asking me to be her partner for beer pong, things are going well. At one point, I try to take her to the other side of the apartment (everyone is in the living room) and see if I can make out, to "show" her this shrine to one of our friends we built in the back as a joke.
    That was the first sign where see was at all hesitant, she made some joke almost calling me out, but followed me anyway, and her body language was def not as good this time around, so I aborted.
    Any idea on how to deal better with that situation, especially the part where she was hesitant to walk away from the group with me?

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    I think you just needed to get a bit more comfort. Either that or something about the way you asked made her uncomfortable

    Do you think you'll be seeing her again at social places?

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    I would have taken her back there and showed her the shrine then gone back into the party without trying anything and showing disinterest. Start talking with other people and showing little attention to her. Freeze her out, make her qualify herself, then go back in later.

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    Building on that, it would also make her more comfortable with going back there later since it's an environment she's used too

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    Default Re: Where did I go wrong?

    Thanks for the response. I'll look into the whole comfort thing.
    She ended up giving me her number when I ran into her again, but it shouldn't have been so much work had I played my cards better.
    An specific ideas for dealing with a girl who shows resistance right when I try to isolate?


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