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    Default Picking up a girl through facebook. Need help on the next step!

    Hi all - this is pretty much my first post/question I've asked here. But I'm in a bind and can't figure out how to play this next move. I had seen this girl through facebook...she's a friend of like 11 of my friends so she popped up a lot. We had never met though, as although from my hometown, she is about 4 years younger than me. This girl is a 10. And also my type because she seems really artsy, has a bunch of cool tats, is like a ballerina or something and model.

    I friended her a couple weeks ago and she accepted.

    I pondered for awhile about what/when to say something. How to open without being creepy. However, one evening I made the mistake of drunk-facebooking, and at the time it seemed appropriate to send her a message. I figured I'd screwed up my chance the following morning, but a day later she responded. Here's more or less the interaction.

    Me:
    I don't know if we've actually ever met…but your name sounded familiar and we had a bunch of friends in common. More importantly, besides being beautiful, you have a Neruda quote up on your page. I therefore found you intriguing and HAD to at least chat with you. I'm trying to plan my first tattoo to be a quote from a Frank O'Hara poem: "perhaps I am myself again." Do you have a local tattoo artist??


    - note - I included the stuff about the tattoos mainly because she had a similar 'quote' tattoo, and I felt it would create a good connection with the poetry stuff, and I thought I needed to at least ask some question to expect a response. I was a little worried I came off mostly as a guy in search of tattoo advice though...

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    Hey there, I did notice that we do have a few friends in common as well. I do appreciate that you too are a lover of Neruda. I love the idea of your tattoo quote, would it be your first tattoo? As for a tattoo artist I know a few. My favorite tattoo artist did the one on my spine and rib cage, but she is no longer available around here. I know all the guys at ********* Tattoos, **** did the one on my ankle bone and I think he does pretty amazing work. Where on your body would you end up getting the tattoo?


    I feel like this is probably as positive a response as I could have hoped...I mean, I was a bit surprised I didn't get ignored as some new random creepy guy hitting on her.

    So obviously I'm going to move forward, but how fast do I play this? I'm kind of thinking basically ask her for a drink/phone number and be very up front and direct, right?

    or do I hang back and continue chatting on facebook for awhile and get to know each other? I'm thinking since we have friends in common, at least she knows I'm not a psycho killer so she'd feel comfortable meeting me somewhere.

    Any advice?

    Thanks!!

    Mike

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    Default Re: Picking up a girl through facebook. Need help on the next step!

    I think shes a little interested because she asked you something in return. I've had my share about facebook pick ups you can't ask to quickly but you cant ask for the number too late. Answer her question back and then try to joke with or on her and "play a game" more or less. Act mysterious and then ask her for her number. Ex. Try to get her to ask you something and tell her you need to trust her more before you can answer her. Or tell her you want to play 10 questions. Hope i helped.

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    Default Re: Picking up a girl through facebook. Need help on the next step!

    First of all: Definitely avoid drunk messaging!
    I've done it more times than I'd care to admit, so believe me, you're not alone in that boat.

    But, it sounds like it worked out OK, so you're still in luck.

    Also- if she's smokin' hot, don't call her beautiful, or pretty, or hot, or gorgeous... That's what every other guy does, and it'll make you blend in with them.

    You want to stand out from the rest of them & be unique, interesting & funny.

    As far as how fast to move? ]Just pay attention to the flow & momentum of the situation.

    Throw out little innocent "testers" to gauge her reaction... then you'll know if she's OK with progressing, and to what level.

    Start thinking of little pet names to call her, based on characteristics she has. (tats - dancing - modeling etc..)

    You could say something such as, "Hey there Dancing Queen, If you like Pizza, you should come with me to ***** on such -n -such day... It's sooooo good, it'll make you want to punch eveyone on your friends list right in the mouth!! "

    Ridiculous, silly things like that will stand out from the messages from other guys that say "Hey, what's up?" or "Hey, how are you doing?" or "How's it going?"

    Once you establish yourself as the funny, cool, interesting guy, she'll be anxious for your next message, will start blowing off everyone else.


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    ParallaxIs is offline Aspiring PUA
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    Default Re: Picking up a girl through facebook. Need help on the next step!

    I think both of your answers helped. Thanks! And yes I need to stay away from drunk messaging lol. I had resigned myself to it not working out so I figure im sort of free rolling at this point lol.

    Thanks guys! I'll let you know how it turns out!


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