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    Question Whats happening here please explain

    can u give me advice on this girl i'm talking to over Blackberry Messenger, recently i been using fractionation and push and pull on her today she told me i have changed and how much she misses the old me i awlays used to start convo but I ignore her and somtimes she start convo saying things like nice dp and ect... I have not meet this girl yet but she wants to meet next month we have losts in common how do I make this girl stat more convos and this not texting its instant messing. She even tells me she loves me but don't know if she means it.


    her: nice dp
    me : hahah thx
    her: you have become very different, I miss the old you
    me: im busy now talk to u latter
    her : no need to talk to me

    some hours latter

    her: funny dp you got
    and then continued convo

    other day her: i'm going for holiday next weak
    me : ok did not want to know
    her:
    me : joking ofcours i wanna know i will miss u
    her : me tooo
    me : <3
    her: you know we can talk in skype video call
    me: I don't want to...
    her :
    me: ok maybe I will

    some times she tells me she dose not care and she even admited she is accting hard to get she never had a BF before I asked her why she told because they hurt you and leave you. This girl is confusing how can I make her start more convos with me. Your the experts let me know whats going on here
    me doing some push and pull
    me: I always be with you
    me: never will leave u
    her; Thank you <3
    me: unless i find a better girl
    her: ahah you jerk!
    me: jeeez I was only kidding

    i'm I doing this right please advice me thx. Nice forum looking forward to knowing u guys

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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    The whole fractionation / push-pull thing only needs to be used in the very beginning, when you're trying to build attraction at first.

    It sounds like she's ALREADY attracted, and flat out told you she prefers you the way you were.

    So, by going into this push-pull thing, you HAVE changed...
    The question you need to ask yourself is, WHY?

    This girl is obviously interested in you, so if you're really digging her too, there's no need to over-game her.
    Know what I mean?

    One thing that you might want to be a little leery of is the fact that she's saying she loves you already....
    It could be OK; but most of the time, when someone says "I love you" too soon, it's an indicator that something isn't quite right with them... like, there's potential for a messy break-up much sooner than expected.

    But the main thing is: if she is already into you, then go with what's working, rather than becoming "someone else".



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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    omg you guys are great that quick reply this forum has my respect, I'm an SEO guy let me know if u ever need help with Website SEO. Same i was thinking what am I doing but the tings is I want her to start more convos I mainly contorl the convo and ask most of questions.

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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    I also used mixed emotions statics where I told a happy story to her then moved to a very sad one her response was
    her: I promise <3
    her: I'll be there for you
    her: forever
    her : and you will never lose me
    her : I promise

    I do flirt with her at times too. she once told me we are good friends weaks ago I said jeez I have lots of firends I need a lover she smiled with <3

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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    Something is wrong with her, she seems super needy. Have you actually Skyped with her, or seen several different pics of her?

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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    yes I seen her pics lots of them, but not skyped with her she dose send me voice notes at times.

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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    Quote Originally Posted by Sam22 View Post
    yes I seen her pics lots of them, but not skyped with her she dose send me voice notes at times.

    Watch out, she might have some serious issues.

    Please tell me she's over 18. From what you say she sounds like she's in high school.

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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    Like I said, if you really like her, there's no need to "over-game".
    It's definitely cool to use little strategies to keep her emotional buttons clicking, but you don't need to continuously push-pull once you have her attracted.

    You can focus more on building anticipation by working on the "pull", but still using little teases/ cliff hangers to keep her on the edge of her seat.

    Again, That IS, if you like this girl that much.


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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    I assume you have already been texting her a lot, prob for a few weeks at least with daily conversations. She is already attached to you and is showing it pretty clear based on what you posted. She is prob young, like 20 or younger.. SO just take her at face value, she is young and straight forward.

    * She doesnt look needy, she just looks like your average girl trying to take it to the next level and secure you.

    Don't use the push/pull on her any more, she's into you already and hooked. Using the push/pull now is just going to confuse her and distance her from you. Basically (reel her in) be yourself and say what you want.

    There is nothing wrong with starting and opening the convo... Most of the time I assume girls are stupid and need assistance. They don't know what to say or what to talk about, sometimes thats your job to open it and keep it going. Lots of girls are just "boring" I find, and they just need some help. Always messaging her first when she is hooked on you, is just reinforcing that fact you are interested in her and showing her shes important, the best way to hook a girl for a LTR.
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    Default Re: Whats happening here please explain

    Wow man I think your write ima stop the push now just look a bit more on pull thx more advice welcomed


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